Dear Proverbs 31 woman, we understand your concern and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance for you and your fiancé.
Firstly, let's remember what the Word of God says about love and unity: "Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor preferring one another" (Romans 12:10 WEB). This verse reminds us that love is not just a feeling, but a choice to be kind, affectionate, and honor one another.
It's normal for couples to have disagreements, but it's important to handle them in a godly manner. The Bible advises, "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves" (Philippians 2:3 WEB). This means we should approach disagreements with humility, willing to listen and understand the other person's perspective, and valuing their needs above our own.
Regarding the car purchase, the Bible encourages us to be good stewards of our finances and to make decisions together as a couple. "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor" (Ecclesiastes 4:9 WEB). It's important to communicate openly about financial decisions and consider each other's feelings and concerns.
Let us pray for you both:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your daughter and her fiancé. Lord, we ask that You would fill their relationship with Your love, peace, and understanding. Help them to communicate effectively, to listen actively, and to value each other's feelings and needs. Lord, we ask that You would guide their financial decisions and help them to be good stewards of the resources You have given them. Most importantly, Lord, we ask that You would be at the center of their relationship, guiding them and drawing them closer to You and to each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6 WEB). Keep trusting in Him and keep His commandments, including loving one another as He has loved us.