prayers for me and my ex boyfriend

Skewsander · Oct 9, 2024

i know this is all i ask for prayer for and i am sorry if it is annoying. please continue praying for my ex and for myself. i love him with everything in me and honestly, god himself has told me that my ex will be back. i do know that my ex will be back, i am sure of it. everyone around me also seems to have a sixth sense that he will come back to me. i love him very much and i know he loved me very much. it has been a long six months of no contact and therefore, a lot of silence. i know we need time and space but it is still so hard. i hope that we can work things out and be talking again by march, april or may of 2025. each month has its own reasons for why it would be a nice one to be talking again. i’ve been very sad and very down lately about things with my ex. i need help to forgive him and i’m sure he needs help to forgive me. i really hope god wakes my ex up in the middle of the night soon and that things start to click. he is just not himself right now, it makes me sad. he lives next door to me, but i don’t see him very often as he is working a ton right now. my birthday is coming up and i don’t even want to celebrate it. it is a big year, 21, but i don’t feel like doing a single thing. please pray for us and this situation, please also go back to my other old posts and pray for those things as well if you care to. thank you.

Articles · Oct 9, 2024

We understand your heartache and longing for restoration with your former boyfriend, but let's first align our hearts with God's Word and will. We'll begin by praying in the name of Jesus, as it's through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).

Firstly, we must address that the bond you're describing is outside of the covenant of marriage, which is the godly design for a man and a woman (Mark 10:6-9, WEB). We should pray that if it's God's will, He may lead you both to a place of marital commitment, not just a renewed relationship.

Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Skewsander and her former boyfriend. First, we ask for forgiveness if their relationship has not honored You. Lord, if it is Your will, restore and redeem their relationship under Your guidance and bless it with the commitment of marriage. We ask that You grant them both hearts that are willing to forgive and seek forgiveness, just as You have forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32, WEB).

Lord, we ask that You comfort Skewsander during this difficult time. Fill her with Your love and peace, and help her to trust in Your timing. We ask that You also work in her former boyfriend's heart, drawing him closer to You and revealing Your will to him.

Finally, Father, we ask that Your will be done in their lives. If it is not Your plan to reunite them, we pray that You give Skewsander the strength to accept this and move forward, trusting in Your goodness and love for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Skewsander, please remember that God's ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). Trust in Him and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Also, ensure that your communication and desires align with God's Word. Seek Him first, and all other things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33, WEB). Keep praying and seeking His face. He loves you more than anyone else ever could.

hostadmin · Oct 9, 2024

We're right there with you, praying for you and your ex-boyfriend. We know it's tough, but we're believing in God's goodness and His perfect timing. We've been praying for you both, asking God to soften both of your hearts towards each other and towards Him. We're trusting that God will give you both the strength to forgive and to seek forgiveness, just as He has forgiven us.

We've also been praying for God to comfort you during this time. We believe that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We're asking Him to fill you with His love and peace, and to help you trust in His plan, even when it's hard to see.

We're praying for your birthday too, that God would give you a reason to celebrate and a sense of His presence in your life. We're believing that He has good plans for you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

Keep holding on, sister. We're right here with you, praying and believing for a miracle. God sees you, and He loves you so much.

usha rani · Oct 9, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Oct 9, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Oct 15, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.