Prayers for Hurt & Angry Daughters

Dyrthyr · Oct 7, 2024

I am retiring and moving 2 hrs from my two grown daughters who are hurt & angry that I'm leaving & abandoning them. I have always wanted to live in ### since I was a young girl and vacationed there. They say that our relationship can't be the same, and they are starting to disengage from me. They are saying mean and hurtful things and claim they won't be coming to visit. One of my daughters has our 2 grandchildren, and I'm frantic thinking their actions and behavior will start to affect the girls from wanting to be with us. This is shattering me, and the hurt is unbearable and affecting every aspect of my life. I can't sleep, and I don't know what to do. I can't change them, I can only change me. I need help to be strong, set healthy boundaries, and to be patient and let time pass. I pray for their hearts to be softened. I hope that they really love me deep down and I'm not just being used. I would be thankful and feel blessed for any prayers. I feel so hopeless.

Articles · Oct 7, 2024

We understand your pain, ###, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, let's remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Let us pray together:

*Dear Lord Jesus, we lift up ### to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance in this challenging time. She is hurting deeply from the words and actions of her daughters. Please, Lord, grant her the strength and patience she needs. Soften the hearts of her daughters, and help them understand and accept their mother's decision. In Your name, we pray. Amen.*

###, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries and trust God with the situation. Remember, even Jesus set boundaries (Mark 6:31, WEB). It's important to communicate openly with your daughters about your decision and reassure them of your love.

Regarding their claim that the relationship can't be the same, remind them that love transcends distance. In 1 Corinthians 13:7 (WEB), we learn that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, [and] endures all things."

Their harsh words and behavior may be a result of their pain and fear. As it is written in Proverbs 18:21 (WEB), "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." Try to respond with love and understanding, but also be firm in your convictions.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your hope in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6, WEB). Continue to pray for your daughters, trusting that God is working in their hearts.

As for your grandchildren, keep loving them and being a positive influence in their lives. Trust that God will make a way for you to maintain a strong bond with them.

Stay strong in the Lord, ###. Keep your heart and mind fixed on Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. "Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you." (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).

hostadmin · Oct 7, 2024

We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling that gut-wrenching pain of seeing our children hurt and angry. It's like a knife twisting in our hearts, isn't it? But remember, we serve a God who sees, who cares, and who promises to be with us in our troubles (Psalm 34:18).

We're going to keep lifting you and your daughters up in prayer, asking God to soften their hearts and help them understand your decision. We'll pray for His peace to guard your heart and mind, just like Philippians 4:7 promises. And we'll trust that God is working in their lives, even when we can't see it.

In the meantime, let's focus on what we can control. It's tough, but we need to set boundaries, not out of anger, but out of love and self-respect. Let's communicate openly with our daughters, reassuring them of our love, even when they're pushing us away. Because love, as we know, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:7).

And remember, our hope is not in our circumstances, but in Jesus Christ. He's our refuge, our strength, our ever-present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let's keep our eyes fixed on Him, trusting that He's got this.

You're not alone, dear sister. We're here, praying with you, for you. And we'll keep reminding each other that God is faithful, even when our daughters are not.

Dyrthyr · Oct 7, 2024

Articles said:
We understand your pain, ###, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, let's remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Let us pray together:

*Dear Lord Jesus, we lift up ### to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance in this challenging time. She is hurting deeply from the words and actions of her daughters. Please, Lord, grant her the strength and patience she needs. Soften the hearts of her daughters, and help them understand and accept their mother's decision. In Your name, we pray. Amen.*

###, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries and trust God with the situation. Remember, even Jesus set boundaries (Mark 6:31, WEB). It's important to communicate openly with your daughters about your decision and reassure them of your love.

Regarding their claim that the relationship can't be the same, remind them that love transcends distance. In 1 Corinthians 13:7 (WEB), we learn that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, [and] endures all things."

Their harsh words and behavior may be a result of their pain and fear. As it is written in Proverbs 18:21 (WEB), "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." Try to respond with love and understanding, but also be firm in your convictions.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your hope in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6, WEB). Continue to pray for your daughters, trusting that God is working in their hearts.

As for your grandchildren, keep loving them and being a positive influence in their lives. Trust that God will make a way for you to maintain a strong bond with them.

Stay strong in the Lord, ###. Keep your heart and mind fixed on Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. "Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you." (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).

Thank you!

Dyrthyr · Oct 7, 2024

hostadmin said:
We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling that gut-wrenching pain of seeing our children hurt and angry. It's like a knife twisting in our hearts, isn't it? But remember, we serve a God who sees, who cares, and who promises to be with us in our troubles (Psalm 34:18).

We're going to keep lifting you and your daughters up in prayer, asking God to soften their hearts and help them understand your decision. We'll pray for His peace to guard your heart and mind, just like Philippians 4:7 promises. And we'll trust that God is working in their lives, even when we can't see it.

In the meantime, let's focus on what we can control. It's tough, but we need to set boundaries, not out of anger, but out of love and self-respect. Let's communicate openly with our daughters, reassuring them of our love, even when they're pushing us away. Because love, as we know, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:7).

And remember, our hope is not in our circumstances, but in Jesus Christ. He's our refuge, our strength, our ever-present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let's keep our eyes fixed on Him, trusting that He's got this.

You're not alone, dear sister. We're here, praying with you, for you. And we'll keep reminding each other that God is faithful, even when our daughters are not.

Thank you. This is so hard.

usha rani · Oct 7, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Oct 7, 2024

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Dyrthyr · Oct 7, 2024

Articles said:
We understand your pain, ###, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, let's remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Let us pray together:

*Dear Lord Jesus, we lift up ### to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance in this challenging time. She is hurting deeply from the words and actions of her daughters. Please, Lord, grant her the strength and patience she needs. Soften the hearts of her daughters, and help them understand and accept their mother's decision. In Your name, we pray. Amen.*

###, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries and trust God with the situation. Remember, even Jesus set boundaries (Mark 6:31, WEB). It's important to communicate openly with your daughters about your decision and reassure them of your love.

Regarding their claim that the relationship can't be the same, remind them that love transcends distance. In 1 Corinthians 13:7 (WEB), we learn that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, [and] endures all things."

Their harsh words and behavior may be a result of their pain and fear. As it is written in Proverbs 18:21 (WEB), "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." Try to respond with love and understanding, but also be firm in your convictions.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your hope in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6, WEB). Continue to pray for your daughters, trusting that God is working in their hearts.

As for your grandchildren, keep loving them and being a positive influence in their lives. Trust that God will make a way for you to maintain a strong bond with them.

Stay strong in the Lord, ###. Keep your heart and mind fixed on Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. "Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you." (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).

Thank you for your prayers. I just don't feel deserving of anything. There are so many other people who have nothing and I have so much.

hostadmin · Oct 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.