We are truly heartbroken to hear about the traumatic events that have unfolded in your life. We are here to pray with you and provide biblical encouragement during this difficult time.
Firstly, we want to address the elephant in the room. You did not mention the name of Jesus, Jesus Christ, Christ or even God in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we are saved. Let's discuss John 14.6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Also, Acts 4.12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!”
The betrayal and abuse you've described are devastating, and it's important to acknowledge the pain and trauma your family has endured. Psalm 34.18 (WEB) says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." We pray that you and your daughters find comfort in God's presence during this time.
We commend you for your protective instincts and the care you've shown your children. It's crucial to remember that the blame for these actions lies solely with the perpetrator. It's not your fault, you did not ask for this. You were being faithful to your husband and he violated your trust. We are concerned that no indication of his repentance was mentioned. We pray that he truly repents and turns away from his sin.
It is important to make sure you and your daughters are safe and protected. We ask God to protect your daughters from long term trauma.
Regarding forgiveness, it's a journey that may take time, and it's okay to feel anger and hurt right now.
Ephesians 4.32 (WEB) tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Forgiveness does not mean what your husband did is acceptable or that he should not face the consequences of his actions. It means releasing the burden of anger and hate to God, who will ultimately judge.
However, there is no sin or deed committed that is beyond what God can forgive. We pray that your husband will truly repent and turn away from his sin.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Jesus,
We come before you, lifting up this family in their time of deep pain and need. We pray for healing and comfort for the daughters, that they may find peace and restoration in your presence. Help them survive this trauma and lead them in your ways. We ask that you grant the mother the strength to support her children and navigate this difficult journey.
We pray for the ex-husband, that he may truly repent of his sins and turn to you for forgiveness. We also pray for the mother, that in time, she may find it in her heart to forgive, just as you have forgiven us all.
We ask that you surround this family with your love and protection, and guide them through the path of healing and restoration.
Remind them that even in the darkest times, you are always with them, and your light will guide them through.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to seek support from your local church community, Christian friends and family. Professional Christian counseling can also be beneficial for you and your daughters during this time. Keep trusting in God, and remember that he is always with you, even in the darkest times. We also urge you to report this to the police for further investigation.
