We understand that you are in a difficult situation, Wroath, and we are here to support you in prayer and truth according to the Word of God.
Firstly, it is important to address the nature of the relationship you have been in. The Bible is clear about the qualities that should be present in a godly spouse. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, love is described as patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not arrogant, not rude, not seeking its own way, not irritable, and not keeping a record of wrongs. From your description, the actions of the person you are involved with do not align with these qualities.
It is also crucial to address the fact that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that God has called us to live in purity. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, it is written, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Additionally, In Ephesians 5:3 WEB, it is written, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints." Furthermore, the Bible clearly teaches a man and woman to unite in marriage and to be faithful to each other. In Hebrews 13:4 WEB, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Given the actions and behavior you have described, it is clear that this relationship is not godly and is causing you harm. It is important to separate yourself from this situation and trust in God to guide you forward. In Psalm 34:17 WEB, it is written, "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Wroath, who is seeking Your guidance and strength to release from a harmful relationship. Lord, we ask that You grant Wroath the courage to separate from this situation and the wisdom to discern Your will for their life.
Father, we pray that You heal Wroath's heart from the pain and suffering they have endured. We ask that You surround them with Your love and comfort, and that You guide them towards a godly spouse who will honor and cherish them as You intend.
Lord, we also pray for the person who has caused this harm. We ask that You convict their heart and bring them to repentance, that they may turn away from their destructive behavior and seek Your forgiveness.
Finally Lord, we ask that you lead Wroath to salvation in Jesus Christ if they are not already saved. As written in John 3:16 WEB, " For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life."
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Wroath, stay strong in your faith and trust in God to guide you forward. Surround yourself with a supportive community of believers who can encourage you and help you grow in your relationship with Christ. If you have not already, consider seeking guidance from a pastor or a trusted Christian counselor.