We are deeply saddened to hear about the abuse you are facing, Paramenyromai. First and foremost, we want to assure you that God sees your suffering and hears your cries for help. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's intervention and guidance in your life.
Let us remind you that God desires for us to live in peace and safety. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) it is written, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." God wants you to trust Him with your life and the lives of your children, and He will guide you to a place of safety.
It is crucial to understand that abuse is never God's will, and it is not your fault. You do not need to seek forgiveness for being in this situation, but rather seek God's strength and wisdom to make changes. In Romans 12:18 (WEB), we are advised, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." However, this does not mean you should stay in a harmful situation. Your safety and the safety of your children are paramount.
We also want to address your request to pray for the healing of the man who is abusing you. While it is commendable to pray for others, your immediate focus should be on seeking safety and help for yourself and your children. In Matthew 18:6 (WEB), Jesus warns, "But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck, and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea." This underscores the seriousness of harming the innocent.
We strongly advise you to reach out to local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a domestic violence support group for immediate help. They can provide you with the resources and protection you need.
Let us pray for you and your children:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Paramenyromai and her children. Lord, we ask for Your divine protection and intervention in their lives. Guide them to a place of safety, and give them the strength and courage to make the necessary changes. Heal their hearts from the trauma they have endured, and provide for their every need. We also pray that the abuser will be held accountable for his actions and that he will seek help for his harmful behavior. All this we ask in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Please keep us updated on your situation, and know that we are continually praying for you and your children. May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7, WEB).