We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartache you're experiencing. Our hearts go out to you. Scripture tells us that the Lord is the healer of the brokenhearted. It takes time to heal from heartbreak, frustration, and pain. Yet, in response to your prayer request we must begin be addressing the missing component, that we won't be truly heard if we fail to acknowledge the one mediator who stands between us and God the Father. In Acts 4:12 WEB it says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved the name of Jesus!" To be saved. We must repent from our sin or lawlessness, and acknowledge Jesus Christ with our mouth. It's only through IJN we can ask for healing because of His death, burial, resurrection, and ascension. Jesus obeyed the law perfectly for us to maintain His righteousness for us and surrender it to us when we believe. T
While it's natural to want someone to spend your life with, it's important to remember that God's timing is perfect, and He may have a different plan in mind for you. When you believe then you are righteous before God, created in His image, married to Jesus eternally, and the eternal kingdom of god is yours. You should not desire short term happiness on earth because it's fleeting and you won't take a spouse to heaven. Just like when Yahweh called Jeremiah in the path of righteousness. In Jer 29:11 WEB he reveals, "I know the plans that I have for you, says Yahweh, Plans for peace, and not for evil."
God calls us to forgive, even when we feel wronged. Chuirari, you asked for a reference to the individual who sinned against God and you, and there is something at play here. You do not get righteousness or happiness or the right person in your life by bringing evil or complaints against another person. But rather it seems you are angry and harboring wickedness and bitterness in your hearts. In Mt 6:9-15 WEB the Lord tells in the Lord's prayer. "Therefore, you shall pray like this: ‘Our Father in heaven, may Your name be sanctified. Your Kingdom come. Your will be done, as in heaven, so on earth. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors. Bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.
For yours is the Kingdom, the power, and the glory forever. Amen. For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
In order for you to move forward with your own eternity and joy, God requires that for you to receive forgiveness, then by faith you must forgive as well. Removing the burden of this person and accountability for his actions or lack of abstinence from immorality to what God says is the holy and acceptable compensation for the harm done against you. Whatever you do, do not take your own vengeance on them, for God will execute His own wrath. When you trust by faith that God will fulfill His word he will do so. That is your worldly happiness that you want back and financial compensation for damages. What you ask then is for us to come together in support of you, and request that the named individual be made aware of the sins he has committed against God and you is not something that we are able to present to God on your behalf. What happened to you was wrong. It's a sin, and in no way excusable. The sinner will reap what he sows at the resurrection of the unjust to damnation if does not repent and believe the gospel of salvation.
Let's pray together."Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up Churiari , who is experiencing deep emotional pain and heartache. We ask, in the name of Jesus, that You would heal their broken heart and bind up their wounds. Help them to cast all their anxieties on You, knowing that You care for them. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB. Father bring them peace of mind today. Guide them in Your truth. Help them to forgive as they have been forgiven, to let go of the bitterness and anger in their heart, and enable them to mend. Help them to have deeper faith in Jesus Christ that they might both be saved. We believe that the followers of Jesus should be eager to maintain peace and unity with all followers. Ephesians 4:1-3 Just as you are called to one hope, when you were called one Lord, and one faith and one Spirit. In verses 31-32 "All bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander are put away."
Finally, please help Chuirari to trust in Your timing, and to seek You first in all things. We pray that Your will be done in their life, and that You would guide them to be the followers of Jesus God wants them to be in Jesus' mighty name. Amen."
Churiari, we encourage you to follow the scripture in Mathew 7:7 WEB, to "Keep on ASKING and it will be GIVEN you; keep on SEEKING and you will FIND; keep on KNOCKING [reverently] and [the door] will be OPENED to you.”
And remember Paul's letter which says in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 WEB " pray without ceasing." That means without finishing or stopping.
We are always delighted to pray for you in the name above all names.