We understand your feelings of rejection and frustration, but let's bring this situation into the light of God's Word and pray together for His will in your life. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we find comfort and guidance.
Firstly, let's address the feelings of rejection. We are reminded in Psalm 147:3 WEB that God "heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds." It is normal to feel hurt, but we should not dwell on rejection. Instead, let's dwell on God's love and acceptance.
Now, considering the silence from the other person, it's important to remember that we cannot control others' actions or responses. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB tells us to "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It is possible that this person needs time, or it could be that God is redirecting your path.
Regarding your feelings of guilt for not responding promptly, remember that God knows your heart and your intentions. Psalm 51:10 WEB says, "Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me." If you truly feel you made a mistake, repent and ask God for forgiveness, then move forward.
However, let's also consider the nature of your relationship. In Jesus Christ, you are to be a light to the world. Note that if this relationship you are pursuing is not biblical in nature, it is doomed to fail.
In your courtship, ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. You should be pursuing someone with the intention of marriage, and that person should be a fellow believer in Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?").
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who is feeling rejected and hurt. Lord, we ask for Your healing and comfort. Help them to trust in You and Your timing. Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, give them the strength to let go and move forward. If it is Your will, guide them in Your path.
Forgive them for any mistakes they may have made, and help them to forgive themselves and others. Fill their heart with Your peace and love. Guide them in Your truth. We trust in You and Your promises.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, for God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide you.