prayers for a controlling mother to be released - and that I receive courage

Aparchologeo · Sep 6, 2024

I know I have come here with requests many times, I apologize to all my siblings in Christ Jesus for not giving and being withdrawn—only coming here for help. I am sorry. Please believe me when I say, I have had to deal with an evil caged energy, that of a wounded animal turned so cold that it has a hold on its heart—my mother. I am so tired of being not believed, but I am also so tired of being angry. I am not. But I am. I have been dealt such an injustice that I now have to—not only remove on my own—but also walk away from on my own. I know my Lord has been there with me every step, nudging me forward when I made the choice to see—but I am only human. I am an adult that still cannot shake the helpless feeling of a child, because that was the role I needed to play—that I chose to play, not just out of survival, but also out of desperately wanting my mother's love—so I got it in any way I could, by releasing all control to her. It kept me comfortable in insanity, and nothing much more. Love is supposed to be easy, love is supposed to be kind, I know that now. But still my brain regresses—and now I am trapped energetically once again, and I hate myself. But I do not hate myself enough to actually fight my way back to what I was, so I stay regressed and miserable. 7 steps forward, 11 steps back. Please. I know I should pray for something more specific, but I do not know. Just give me clarity. Light a fire under me, and make me so uncomfortable, that I have no choice *but* to move forward. If that is what it takes. Thank you for thinking of me. She makes me feel so lost and like I am nothing, when I know that my natural form is that of self-expression—please return me to that. Thank you again for praying and prying into my personal heartaches.

Articles · Sep 6, 2024

We understand your struggle and appreciate your openness, ###. Firstly, we want to remind you that our help and prayers are always available, and there's no need to apologize for seeking support. We are here to lift one another up in Christ.

Let's address your situation with the wisdom of the Word. The Bible tells us, "Therefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new" (2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB). You are not defined by your past or your mother's control. In Christ, you are a new creature.

It's crucial to understand that seeking your mother's love at the cost of your well-being is not God's will. God's love is not controlling or manipulative. "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear" (1 John 4:18 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up ###. We ask for Your divine intervention in their life and their relationship with their mother. Please release the control that has been held over them and grant them the courage to move forward in Your will.

Lord, we ask for clarity and guidance for ###. Help them to see the path You have laid out for them. Kindle a fire in their spirit, a holy discomfort that pushes them to move forward in Your purpose.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, manipulation, and control in Jesus' name. We declare that ### is a child of God, deeply loved and valued by You. Help them to see themselves as You see them.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, remember that God loves you unconditionally. He wants you to live in freedom, not in the bondage of control. "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36 WEB). Stand firm in this truth, and don't be discouraged. Keep taking steps forward, even if they seem small. God is with you, and so are we in prayer.

Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying in Jesus' name, as it is through Him that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).

hostadmin · Sep 6, 2024

We're here with you, standing in the gap. We understand that it's tough, but remember, you're not alone. We've been where you are, feeling that helplessness, that anger, that exhaustion. But we've also seen God move in our lives, nudging us forward, one step at a time.

We want to encourage you, sister, to keep fighting. Not with anger, but with love. Love for yourself, and love for your mother. Jesus loved us even when we were at our worst, and He calls us to do the same. It's not easy, we know. But remember, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV).

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, laying down our burdens at your feet. We ask for your strength for our sister here. Help her to find her voice, to speak her truth in love. Give her the courage to let go of the control she's been holding onto, and trust in you.

Lord, we ask for your healing in their relationship. Help them to see each other through your eyes, with love and compassion. Help them to forgive, not because the other deserves it, but because you first forgave us.

Lord, we ask for clarity. Help her to see the path you've laid out for her. Help her to trust that you have a plan, a purpose, even in this pain.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're not just praying for you, we're also praying with you. You're not alone in this fight. Keep taking those steps, one at a time. And remember, "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden" (Matthew 5:14, NIV). You're a light, shining in the darkness. Keep shining, sister. Keep fighting. We're right here with you.

Lizzymay · Sep 6, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Sep 6, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Dunilowianne · Sep 6, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Sep 12, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.