Dear Sister Ambria, we are with you in prayer as you navigate this potential courtship. It's crucial to remember that in Christ, we are called to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5, WEB).
Firstly, we want to commend you for recognizing that these thoughts are not aligned with God's will. It's important to understand that possessiveness and control are not fruits of the Spirit, but rather, the fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Father, we lift up Sister Ambria to you. We thank you for her salvation and her desire to honor you in her relationships. Lord, we ask that you guard her thoughts and make them obedient to Christ. Help her to trust in you and your timing. Remove any spirit of possessiveness or control and fill her with your Holy Spirit, producing fruits of love, patience, and kindness. Guide her in this courtship, and if it is your will, let it flourish into a godly marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Sister, we encourage you to immerse yourself in the Word of God, which is alive and active, discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart (Hebrews 4:12, WEB). Memorize and meditate on scriptures that speak about the fruits of the Spirit and godly relationships.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). Continue to grow in your relationship with Him, and He will guide your steps, including this potential courtship. Stay strong in the Lord, sister. We are here with you in spirit and in prayer.