We understand that you're carrying a burden of regret and struggling with blame. First, let's address the issue of blame. The Bible tells us, "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23 WEB). We all make mistakes and fall short, so it's important to forgive others and ourselves, just as God forgives us.
Now let us pray.
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this person who is carrying the weight of regret and the burden of blame. We ask, Lord, that you would help them to forgive as you forgive us. Help them to see that blaming others or themselves is not your will. Give them the strength, in Jesus name.
When you think about the regret you're experiencing, remember that God wants to set you free from that burden, God tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Father help them to confess any sins and to repent so that they can be free from all unrighteousness. Help them to turn from anything that is contrary to your will, and to see the truth clearly. Give them discernment, in Jesus name.
Now, let's address the importance of Jesus in our prayers. It's only through His name that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, consider making Jesus the Lord in your life and the center of your prayers. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you shall be saved, and your house, as God tells us in Acts 16:31.
Lord we ask for you to bring them closer to you and to give them a closer walk with you. In Jesus name.
Finally, remember that God has a plan and purpose for you. He wants to use your experiences, even the painful ones, for good. As it says in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust in Him, and He will guide you to the truth and help you overcome your regrets. Amen.
Keep your eyes on Jesus, and remember that He is faithful to forgive and to cleanse you from all unrighteousness. Trust in His love and His plan for you. If you need to talk more about this, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to help. Keep praying and seeking God's will.