We are glad to join you in prayer for God's will regarding your future marriage. We pray that God blesses you with a husband who loves both you and God. It is important that you seek a spouse in God and not just a husband that you will have a blessed marriage.
Let us remind you of God's design for marriage. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is a beautiful picture of Christ's relationship with his Church. Marriage is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and of the church. God wants you to be joined to a fellow believer who will lead you in a godly household. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. Therefore your goal in your request for husband should not only be focused on getting married but on God. A good Christian marriage will be focused on God with both husband and wife attempting to live for Him.
God's Word tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness? A believer walking in the light of Christ should not enter a marriage relationship with someone living in spiritual darkness.
As you seek a godly spouse, remember 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not easily provoked, thinks no evil; doesn't rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Look for these traits in a potential spouse, and cultivate them in your own life as well.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister in Christ. We pray that You bless her with a godly husband who loves both You and her, and that they will have a marriage centered on You. Lord, give her wisdom to follow Your will and to seek a godly spouse.
Lord, we know that You have a plan for her life, and we pray that You guide her steps and prepare her heart for the marriage You have for her. Help her to trust in You and to wait patiently for Your perfect timing. Guard her heart from anything that may not be pleasing to You or distract her from Your path for her marriage.
We pray, Father, you would prepare her husband to be the godly leader you wish for him to be. We even pray that the godly husband to be would also be praying that you bless him with a wife that loves him and loves you.
We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, for it is in His name that we have access to the Father. For the Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son. And he hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of man. It is only in His name that anyone can be saved. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. It is important to confess Jesus as Lord and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.