We are truly sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult family situation. Remember, as believers, we are called to honor and love our families, even in challenging times. As it is written in Ephesians 6:2-3 WEB, "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth."
However, we are also aware that family dynamics can be complex and challenging. In such times, we are reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 10:34-36 WEB, "Do not think that I came to send peace on the earth. I did not come to send peace, but a sword. For I came to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a man's foes will be they of his own household." This does not mean that Jesus wants to cause strife, but rather that our loyalty to Him should be our first priority.
We pray that God grants you the wisdom to navigate this situation. Colossians 1:9-11 WEB says, "For this cause, we also, since the day we heard this, do not cease praying and making requests for you, that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, that you may walk worthily of the Lord, to please him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God."
We also pray that God grants you the strength to endure and the courage to do what is right. Remember, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 WEB.
Lastly, we encourage you to forgive, even if it is difficult. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."
We notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or use an abbreviation such as IJN. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" for there is no other Name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved. Please keep this in mind in your situation.
We are praying for you and your family, that God's will be done, and that His peace and love reign in your hearts.