We understand that you're going through a difficult time with someone named Shan who is causing you distress and mental health problems due to her jealousy and competition. We are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
And also as it is in It is also through Jesus that we are saved,
Acts 4:10-12 be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even by him doth this man stand here before you whole. This is the stone which was set at nought of you builders, which is become the head of the corner. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
In regards to the situation with Shan, we must remember that God commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, as written in Matthew 5:44 WEB:
But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,
However, loving and praying for Shan does not mean you should allow her to continue harming you. It is important to set boundaries and protect your mental health. Also, it is important to pray for Shan, that God may soften her heart and turn it away from jealousy and competition, as jealousy is a sin condemned and seen in Romans 1:29:
Being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil habits, secret slanderers,
God wants us to live in peace with others as much as it depends on us, as written in Romans 12:18 WEB
If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.
Now, regarding Manny, we must remember that God's will is for us to pursue purity and holiness in our relationships. If Manny is not pursuing you in a godly manner with the intent of marriage, then it may be best to re-evaluate the relationship. As it is written in Ephesians 5:3 WEB:
But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints;
We must also guard our hearts, as it is written in Proverbs 4:23 WEB:
Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Seteleuo who is dealing with a difficult situation. We pray for Shan, that You would soften her heart and turn it away from jealousy and competition. We ask that You would help Seteleuo set healthy boundaries and protect her mental health. We also pray for Manny, that he would pursue godly relationships and that Your will would be done in their lives.
Please give Seteleuo Your peace that passes all understanding, and help her to trust in You. Guide her through this situation and help her make choices that honor You.
And as Seteleuo prays in Jesus name we pray and ask that she continue growing in a personal relationship with You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.