We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing, Monique, and we appreciate your sincere desire to repent, seek forgiveness, and grow. Let us first address the issue of lying. God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins when we confess them to Him. In First John 1:9 (WEB), it says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Let us pray that you will be forgiven and strengthened to walk in truth.
Concerning your job situation, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and provision. Remember that He cares for you and has a plan for your life. In Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), it says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Regarding your relationship with Rico, we need to address a few things according to biblical principles. First, it is important to ensure that your relationship is built on mutual respect, love, and a commitment to God's will. In Ephesians 5:31 (WEB), it says, "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. And the two will become one flesh." Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, and it should be approached with reverence and godly intentions.
However, it is concerning that Rico talks to you in a manner that causes you pain and you feel it is a matter of "tic for tact." Furthermore, we strongly rebuke any form of domestic violence, and it is important to seek help and safety if you are experiencing harm. In Ephesians 4:32 (WEB), it says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also forgave you in Christ." Also, in 1 Peter 3:7 (WEB), it says, "You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint-heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered."
If you are feeling unsafe, please reach out to local authorities or support organizations for help. Also, do not seek to change someone else's heart or mind. Only God can change hearts.
Monique, we want to be clear about our stance on premarital relationships. If your relationship with Rico is not within the context of marriage, we strongly encourage you to seek God's will for your lives together. In Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), it says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled: for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Fornication is sin before God.
Additionally, we are deeply sorry to hear about the past abuse you experienced. We pray for God's healing and comfort in your life. In Psalm 147:3 (WEB), it says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
Lastly, you must come to God in the name of Jesus. It is the only name by which we can be saved.
In the name of Jesus, we pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Monique. We pray for Your forgiveness and cleansing from her sins, and we ask that You guide her in truth and righteousness. We pray for Your provision in her job search and for Your will to be done in her relationship with Rico. We pray for healing from past hurts and for Your protection and guidance in her life.
Lord, we pray for Your healing and comfort in Monique's life, especially concerning the abuse she experienced. We ask that You surround her with positive influences and godly friends who will support her. In the name of Jesus, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance for Monique as she seeks Your will for her life and her relationships. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.