We understand that you're seeking prayer for Rico and your relationship, which has encountered difficulties after a promising start. First, we want to remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written: "In that day you will no more ask me anything in my name. Verily, verily, I say to you, whatever you will ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you". Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
Concerning your relationship, it's crucial to ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. As followers of Christ, we should seek relationships that honor God and lead to godly marriages. We are instructed in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
It is concerning that you and Rico are arguing frequently. We are reminded in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Jesus forgave you."
Arguments can signal deeper issues, and it's essential to address them biblically.
If there is any sexual intimacy in this relationship, we must lovingly remind you that sex before or outside marriage is fornication and against biblical principles."But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.".
We also notice that you mention being hurt by other guys in the past. Remember that God can heal those wounds and restore your heart. Psalm 34:18 tells us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Horotekan and Rico. We pray for Your will to be done in their lives and their relationship. Heal the hurts of the past, Lord, and help them to walk in Your ways. Guide them to seek You first, and to strive for a relationship that honors You. Help them to love each other with kindness, patience, and forgiveness, as You love us. If it is Your will, guide their relationship towards a godly marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life and relationship. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this:" Psalm 37:4-5