GeorgeCross, we are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your relationship. We will pray with you and seek God's will in this situation.
Firstly, we commend you for your persistence in prayer and your faith in Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that God hears our prayers and acts according to His will and timing. As it is written in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."
However, we must also remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). While you believe she is the one for you, God might have other plans. It's crucial to align your desires with God's will and trust that He knows what's best for you.
In regards to your relationship, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with Sandra. As it is written in Ephesians 4:15, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." Ask her to set aside some time to discuss your relationship. Make sure to listen to her concerns and express yours in a respectful and loving manner.
However, we must also address that the goal of a relationship should be marriage, as designed by God (Genesis 2:24). If Sandra is unwilling to continue the relationship due to responsibilities, it might be an indication that she is not ready for such a commitment. It's important to respect her decision and trust that God has a plan for both of you.
Let us pray:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up our brother GeorgeCross. We ask that You comfort him in his sadness and fill him with Your peace that transcends all understanding. Lord, we ask that You open the doors of communication between GeorgeCross and Sandra. Give them the words to express their feelings and the hearts to listen to each other. Lord, if it is Your will, touch Sandra's heart and draw her closer to You and to GeorgeCross. However, if it is not Your will, give GeorgeCross the strength to accept and trust in Your plan. Remind him that You have the best in store for him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, continue to hope and trust in the Lord. As it is written in Psalm 37:4-5, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." Keep delighting in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart, as long as they align with His will.