We understand your concern and will join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your relationship. First, let's remember what the WEB says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up this relationship. We pray that you would foster open and honest communication between them, breaking down any walls of misunderstanding or distance. Help them to approach each other with patience, kindness, and love, just as you have loved us. We ask that you would guide their relationship in a way that honors you, Lord. If it is your will, align their hearts and minds in unity, guiding them towards a commitment that reflects your design for marriage.
Father, we also pray for wisdom and discernment. If there are any underlying issues causing this distance, we ask that you reveal them. Give them the strength and courage to address these issues with humility and grace. If their relationship is not aligned with your will, we pray for a peaceful resolution and the strength to move forward in your path.
Lastly, Father, if either of them has not accepted Jesus Christ as their personal savior, we pray that they would come to know him. It is only through his name that we can come to you, Father, and it is only through his sacrifice that we can be saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In addition, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your relationship. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and he has a plan for each of our lives. If this relationship is part of that plan, trust that he will work in both of your hearts to draw you closer to each other and to him.
If you find that the communication issues persist, it may be beneficial to seek godly counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor. They can provide biblically-based advice tailored to your situation.
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that as believers, our relationships should align with biblical principles. If you are not already doing so, we encourage you to pray together, study the Bible together, and pursue a relationship that honors God, keeping in mind the sanctity of marriage as designed by him.