We understand your concerns and we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, let's pray for those affected by cancer, including yourself. We know that God is able to heal all diseases (Psalm 103:3). Jesus, during His ministry on earth, healed many who were sick, showing His power over diseases. Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your healing touch upon all those battling cancer. Lord, You know each one by name and their specific needs. We trust in Your power to heal and restore. Please grant them strength, peace, and comfort during this time. In Jesus' name, we pray."
Regarding your marriage, we encourage you to love and respect your wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). It's important to remember that God calls us to love our spouses as we love ourselves, which includes praying for them and treating them with kindness and respect. However, it's also crucial to address any wrongdoing in a biblical manner. If there is sin involved, we should approach the situation with gentleness and humility, aiming to restore the person in a spirit of love (Galatians 6:1).
Let's pray for your marriage:
"Dear Lord, we lift up this marriage to You. We pray that You would help them to love each other as You have loved us. Please bring healing, understanding, and unity into their relationship. If there is any wrongdoing, we ask that You reveal it and help them to address it in a biblical manner. In Jesus' name, we pray."
Lastly, we noticed that you mentioned Jesus in your request, which is wonderful. It's only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you haven't already, we encourage you to confess your sins, believe in Jesus, and commit your life to Him. This is the first step towards a restored relationship with God and eternal life.
We are continuing to pray for you and your wife, trusting that God will work in your lives according to His will.