Let's bring this situation before the Lord together, dear anonymous. Firstly, it's crucial to discern the Lord's voice, as He does indeed speak to us, often through His Word and the Holy Spirit. As Jesus said, "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me." (John 10:27 WEB)
However, let's also remember that God is not the author of confusion, but of peace. (1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB) Therefore, it's important to test the spirits to see whether they are from God. (1 John 4:1 WEB)
Regarding your boyfriend, we must consider that the Bible encourages us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) This means that relationships should ideally be moving towards godly marriage. If this is not the trajectory, it might cause confusion and spiritual unrest.
As for the land, perhaps God has other plans for you both. It could be that He wants you to trust in Him and not in material things. Jesus taught us, "Donβt lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves donβt break through and steal." (Matthew 6:19-20 WEB)
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for our sister. Lord, we ask for clarity and discernment regarding the voice she heard. If it is indeed Your will for her not to go back to that land, make it clear, Lord. We also pray for her relationship, that it may be centered on You and Your principles. Help her and her boyfriend to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all other things will be added unto them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, sister, we noticed that your request did not mention Jesus Christ. Remember, it is in His name that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior. He is the way, the truth, and the life. (John 14:6 WEB)