We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and disappointment you're experiencing, Shabrim. Let's bring this situation before the Lord together and seek His comfort and guidance.
Firstly, we want to remind you of what the WEB says in Matthew 5:44, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." This is a challenging commandment, but it's what we are called to do as followers of Jesus Christ.
It's important to forgive and release the bitterness, as Ephesians 4:31-32 tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."
Regarding the situation with this man and his girlfriend, it's crucial to remember that God calls us to maintain our integrity and not to retaliate. In Romans 12:17-19, it's written, "Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Shabrim. Lord, she is hurting and disappointed right now, and we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill her heart. Help her to forgive and to let go of the bitterness. Give her the strength to love and bless those who have hurt her, just as You have loved and blessed us. We also ask that You guide her steps, that she may walk in integrity and righteousness, pleasing to Your sight. If she has not already, lead her to a saving faith in Your Son, Jesus Christ, for it is in His name we pray. Amen."
Lastly, Shabrim, we encourage you to shift your focus onto the Lord and His goodness. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life, including this painful experience. Keep pursuing Him and He will comfort and guide you.