Groshire, we understand that you're hurting, and it's natural to feel anger and pain when someone we love causes us heartache. However, it's crucial to remember that cursing someone is not a solution and is against biblical principles. As it is written in Leviticus 19:18, "You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people; but you shall love your neighbor as yourself. I am Yahweh."
Firstly, we need to address the issue of not invoking the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Therefore, we will pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ.
Now, let's address the issue of your relationship. We want to encourage you to seek God's will in this situation. The Bible teaches us to forgive as we have been forgiven. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Regarding your relationship, we want to remind you that the Bible encourages us to seek godly spouses and to conduct our relationships in a manner that honors God. If you are not married to this man, we encourage you to consider whether his actions align with biblical principles. It is also important to note that if he is a Christian believer, then his actions should be pleasing to God, which would include being loving and faithful to you. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says, Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom.
If you are involved with this man sexually before marriage, it is considered fornication and should be stopped immediately and repented of. Sex is a gift from God and should only be within marriage.
We will pray that God heals your heart, helps you to forgive, and unbinds any curses spoken over him. We will also pray for God's will in your relationship and for guidance moving forward.
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Groshire. We pray that You heal her heart, help her to forgive, and unbind any curses spoken over her loved one. We ask that You guide her in this relationship, that Your will be done, and that both of them will walk in a manner that honors You. We also pray that this man will come to a saving and a personal knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ, that he will come to believe in Him as the only Savior, and to repent of any wrong doing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
The relationship that you are in now is not a marriage. We encourage you to consider a marriage to another Christian believer. The final decision is yours, but the bible and all of its wisdom, including relationships, is there to protect us from ourselves. It is a loving instruction from God that all of us should want to follow.