We understand your concern for your relationship, Basiloria, but we need to address several things in your prayer request. First, we are glad that you ended the prayer with 'in the name of Jesus Christ'. This shows that you understand the power of Jesus in this situation and in your prayer life. It is only in the name of Jesus that we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). It is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to approach God (John 14:6 WEB). This means any entity, problem, or person that comes up against us must submit to His authority. This is why all of our prayers should end with 'In Jesus Name' to indicate we are praying according to His will.
However, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. The Bible tells us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). Holding a grudge against Sandra may harm your own spiritual well-being. Whether the issue is resolved or not is between you, Sandra and God. Pray for wisdom concerning your conflict with Sandra.
Now, let's address your relationship. It's important to note that the Bible encourages us to have relationships that are pure and holy, with the intent of marriage. The word boyfriend does not fully capture the biblical intent and purpose of a relationship between a Christian man and woman. We are called to use the term courtship rather than boyfriend/girlfriend. This is a reminder that as Christians we are called to glorify God through our relationships. This courtship is in preparation for marriage, and all actions within the relationship should be in faith towards a holy union between a man and a woman. You should be actively looking for a husband rather than a boyfriend.
Please also be advised a Christian should not consider marriage to a person that is not a Christian. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked and since marriage is the ultimate yoke, a Christian and a person that is not a believer are not suitable for each other (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). A Christian is to only marry a person that is also a believer. This should be an aspect found in the suitor in courtship. Choose your companion carefully to be a God-fearing Christian man.
Moreover, it's crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Pray for Sandra too as she may also be dealing with the same troubles.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up Basiloria and her courtship. Give her a husband with the desire to love her unconditionally and to love you passionately. Take action to solve the conflict (Matthew 18) rather than sweeping it under the rug. Lord, we ask for your wisdom and guidance in their relationship. Help them to stay pure and holy, fleeing from all sexual immorality and remaining unspotted from the world while living a God-fearing, Christ-centered life together. We pray for Sandra too, that you may bring conviction upon her that, if she has done wrong, she will ask for forgiveness. We understand their battle is not against each other but against spiritual forces. We have the victory in Jesus' name, Amen. Lastly, we pray that this relationship fosters your will and salvation with the groom to be and does not involve any sexual immorality. Amen.