We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your marriage, Elmailordain. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church. As the Holy Spirit guides us through the Word of God in Ephesians 5:25 WEB:
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for her.
Moreover, in Colossians 3:18-19 WEB we read:
Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them.
However, God does not intend for marriage to be a place of abuse or emotional harm. It is clear from your request that your husband's behavior is causing you pain, and that is not acceptable. In cases of abuse or severe mistreatment, separation may be necessary for safety and healing.
First, let us pray for your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister Elmailordain. Lord, You know the pain and suffering she is experiencing in her marriage. We pray for Your intervention, that You would convict her husband's heart and bring an end to his undesired behavior and emotional abuse. We pray for healing and restoration in their marriage, if that is Your will.
However, Lord, we also pray for Your protection over Elmailordain. Guide her steps and give her the wisdom to make decisions that ensure her safety and well-being. If separation is necessary, help her to find the support and resources she needs.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Elmailordain, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. This could be from a trusted pastor, Christian counselor, or wise believers in your life. It is also important to involve local authorities or support services if you feel threatened or unsafe.
Remember, God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. (Psalm 46:1 WEB)
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it says in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.