We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, but we are encouraged by your desire to fight for it. God's heart is for reconciliation and redemption, and we believe that with Him, all things are possible.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the wrongs on both sides and your ability to move forward. This is a testament to the work God has already done in your heart. It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved. We remember the words of the Apostle Peter, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only by the name of Jesus Christ we can receive salvation, forgiveness, and marriage restoration. When appropriate you should ask him to pray with you to the heavenly Father in Jesus name.
However, we want to remind you that true forgiveness is not merely words, but an action that involves letting go of bitterness and resentment. As it is written, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
We urge you both to embrace this forgiveness, not only for the sake of your marriage but also for your personal healing and growth. Resentment is a heavy burden to bear, and it will only cause further harm if left unaddressed.
We also want to encourage you to continue making the changes you've started. Actions speak louder than words, and your husband will see the permanence of your changes through your consistent effort. Remember, "A good man brings forth good things out of the good treasure of his heart, and the evil man brings forth evil things out of the evil treasure of his heart. For out of the abundance of the heart, his mouth speaks" (Luke 6:45, WEB).
As for your husband, we pray that God will soften his heart and open his eyes to see the changes you're making. We pray that he will find the strength to let go of the past and forgive, just as Christ forgave us.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this marriage that is on the brink of divorce. We ask, Lord, that You would intervene, that You would soften hearts and open eyes. Help them to see each other as You see them, to forgive as You forgive.
Lord, we ask that You would heal the years of hurt and resentment, that You would replace it with love, patience, and kindness. Help them to remember the vows they made to each other and to You.
We ask that You would guide them, that You would give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this difficult time. Help them to seek You first, to trust in Your will and Your timing.
We pray for their daughters, Lord. We ask that You would protect their hearts and minds, that You would give them peace and security despite the tension in their home.
We pray all these things in Jesus' name, believing that with You, all things are possible, and trusting that Your will be done and not our own.
Amen.
Lastly, we want to leave you with these words from Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB): "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
We urge you both to continue praying together, to seek God's will for your marriage, and to trust in His faithfulness.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
