We commend you, ###, for your humble and sincere prayer, and for seeking God's will in your life. We appreciate your desire to keep your thoughts pure and your marriage strong. We will pray with you and offer some biblical encouragement and guidance.
Firstly, we want to address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. You ended your prayer with "I pray in the mighty name of Hesus." We want to clarify that the correct name is Jesus, and it is only by His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Regarding your concern, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith and to trust in God's perfect plan for your life and marriage. Remember what is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
We also want to remind you of the power of prayer and intimacy in marriage that goes beyond the physical. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB: "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear." And in 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 WEB: "Let the husband render to the wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife doesn't have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don't deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother ###. We thank You for his faith and his desire to live a life pleasing to You. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in his life and marriage. If it is Your will for his male performance to be restored, we pray that You make a way where there seems to be no way. And if it is Your will for him to surrender this desire, we pray that You give him clarity, strength, and alternative ways to maintain meaningful intimacy with his wife.
We pray for his marriage, that it may be strengthened and blessed. Help him and his wife to love and support each other as You intend. We rebuke any attempts of the enemy to distract or disrupt Your will and purpose for their life and marriage.
We also pray that ### will continue to trust in You and to seek Your face. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.