We understand your situation and are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to address that the Bible encourages us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:1-3, WEB), and their guidance is crucial. However, it's also essential to consider that relationships at your age should be approached with caution and godly intentions. The Bible encourages us to flee from youthful passions and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Timothy 2:22, WEB).
We must also address that the goal of any relationship should be to glorify God and seek His will. If marriage is a future desire, it's important to remember that the Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This means that both individuals should be Christians, seeking to honor God in their relationship and future marriage.
It's also crucial to touch on the fact that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's by His name that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). So, we encourage you to pray in Jesus' name and cultivate a personal relationship with Him.
Now, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up this young sister and her boyfriend. We ask that You grant them wisdom beyond their years, and a desire to honor You in their relationship. Please help them to understand the importance of seeking Your will and glorifying You in all they do.
Lord, we pray for the boyfriend's parents, that they may have discernment and godly insight into this situation. We ask that You guide their thoughts and decisions, and help them to communicate effectively with their son.
If it is Your will for this relationship to continue, we pray that all fears and hindrances would be removed. But above all, we ask that Your will be done in their lives. Help them to trust in You and to seek You first (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you both to study the Bible and seek God's will for your lives. Allow Him to guide your relationship, and always strive to honor Him in all you do.