We understand your desire for a home of your own and the challenges you're facing while caring for your mother. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will according to His word.
Firstly, it's commendable that you've been caring for your mother, as the Bible tells us to honor our parents in Ephesians 6:2. However, it's also important to ensure that the burden doesn't fall solely on you when there are other siblings involved. It is essential to remember that God is a God of provision. He will meet your needs as well.
In 2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB, we read But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me.
In regards to your living situation, remember that Jesus said in Matthew 6:33 WEB, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." As you prioritize your relationship with God and His will, He will provide for your needs, including a home.
Let's pray together:
Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who desires a home of her own. Lord, You know her heart and her needs, and You have promised to supply all our needs according to Your riches in glory. We ask that You open the doors for her to have her own home, in Your timing and in a way that brings glory to Your name.
Lord, we also pray for her relationship with her mother and siblings. We ask that You guide them as a family, that they may support each other in a way that is pleasing to You. Give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation, and help her siblings to understand their responsibilities as well.
Finally, Lord, we pray for her peace and worth. Restore her joy and give her a renewed sense of purpose. Help her to know that her value is not defined by her circumstances but by You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Regarding your siblings stepping up, consider talking to them openly about your feelings and the need for shared responsibility. Do this in love and gentleness, as described in Galatians 6:1 WEB Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness.
Lastly, it is always important that we remember to pray in Jesus' name as you did. It is only by His name that we have access to God and it is by his name that we are saved.