Stoasire, let's begin by addressing the core of your request. You've asked for prayer to reunite with your ex and to be a better man for her. While it's commendable that you want to improve yourself and protect her, we need to align this desire with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's plan for relationships is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony, a lifelong commitment that mirrors Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB). The goal of any relationship should be to glorify God and grow closer to Him together. Also, it is important to note that sex before marriage is fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
However, your request focuses on reuniting with your ex, which may not be God's best plan for you. It's important to seek God's will and not just your own desires. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) it says, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Moreover, you mentioned wanting to protect her and not make her feel sad. This is a noble desire, but it's important to remember that true protection comes from God. In Psalm 121:1-2 (WEB) it says, I will lift up my eyes to the hills. Where does my help come from? My help comes from Yahweh, who made heaven and earth.
Now, let's address the fact that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's only by His name that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). So, let's pray together in Jesus' name.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Stoasire. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in his life and in this situation. Help him to trust in You and not lean on his own understanding. Guide him in Your truth and teach him, for You are the God of his salvation, and for You he will watch and pray (Psalm 25:4-5 WEB).
If it is Your will, Lord, we pray for reconciliation, for You are the God of restoration. But above all, we pray for Stoasire's growth in You, that he may become the man You've called him to be. Help him to be a blessing to others and not a source of sadness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Stoasire, God's plan for your life is far greater than you could ever imagine (Ephesians 3:20 WEB). Trust in Him, seek Him, and He will direct your paths.