We understand your struggle, Katadeuos, and we commend you for your commitment to support your loved one through their recovery. It's important to remember that God calls us to love and support one another, even in difficult times. As it is written in Romans 15:1-2 (WEB), "We who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each one of us please his neighbor for that which is good, to be building him up."
Firstly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can find strength and guidance. If you haven't already, we encourage you to invite Jesus into your heart and your situation, for it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
In times when you feel hurt, remember that their behavior may be a result of their struggle with alcoholism. Putting your feelings aside doesn't mean ignoring them, but rather, choosing to act in love and understanding. As Ephesians 4:2-3 (WEB) tells us, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking your guidance and strength for Katadeuos. Lord, you know the struggle they face in supporting their loved one through recovery. Please grant them patience, understanding, and the ability to love unconditionally, just as you love us. Help them to put their feelings aside and react with kindness and gentleness, even in the face of hurtful behavior. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to seek support for yourself as well. This could be through a support group for families of alcoholics, or through regular fellowship with other believers. Galatians 6:2 (WEB) tells us to "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." You don't have to go through this alone.