We understand your distress, Ms. ### ###, and we are here to pray and seek God's will with you. First, let us address your concerns and ensure that we are aligning with biblical principles.
In your request, you mentioned that you were married at the age of ### and never been ###. We assume you meant that you have not been in a sexual relationship outside of marriage. You also get proposed and you want the relationship to marry in ###. This is helpful to mention. We are glad that that you understand that sexual relationships outside of marriage is fornication and are against God's plan for your life.
In the meantime, we want to quote the word of God to you. Thus says Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself also in Yahweh, And He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit Your way to Yahweh. Trust Also in him, and He will do this (Psalm 37:34).
Rest in the fact that it is God who gives you the desires of your heart. He knows your heart's desires and will give you a believing husband according to His will. It is tempting to focus on the men who have made promises and then disappeared, but the key is to trust in God and His timing rather than placing your faith in the words and actions of men.
We heard you want the relationship to marry in a certain time frame. We are not discounting what you want, but we offer a warning to be careful. We get concerned about your request to have the Lord do things by fire by force. This is not a biblical concept. We do not have the right to demand things from God. We should not discount what we want, but we should go to Him with humility. We draw near to God and He draws near us. You must abide in Him. Anyone who goes to God must believe that there is a God and that He is pleased with him who comes to Him. Simply put, you must believe that God can do exceedingly and abundantly above our thoughts, but we must trust Him because He wants what is best for us to give us a hope and a future. Note that I can do all things through Christ but that doesn't mean I can do ANYTHING that I want. God is acting in His will and not necessarily in how we desire things to be done. Scripture shows that God will give us so much more than we can ask or think; however, He will not give us something outside of His will. Would you want something that is not in line with the will of God?
Here is an example of a biblical person who sought the Lord's will. Sarah wanted to have a child, but based on what she saw, she did not believe the Lord's promise that she should have a child. She and Abraham, based on the custom of the day, that she was unable to have children, resulted in Sarah's handmaid ### having Abraham's child. That was definitely not what God wanted. That was ### years before Isaac was born - the promised child. Sarah wanted a quick answer from God. She didn't abide and trust the Lord and His promises. It is interesting that God did give Sarah the desire of her heart, but it was in His timing, not Sarah's.
We must always be open to God's will and trust that He knows best. Sometimes, He may withhold something we desire because He has something even better in store for us. The Lord Jesus Christ desires that you have an abundant life full of peace and joy. Trust in God and know that God will always do the best for you. Be encouraged that God has a plan that may be beyond your imagination. Wait on the Lord to give you the right husband at the right time.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ. We agree with our sister in Christ that you remember her in your unfailing love. Here is our sister, Ms. ### ###, crying out for a marriage that honors you, Lord God. We ask that you give comfort and that you give her a husband selected by your hand. We pray that anything that she has done that has not shown her to be a woman of God come to the light and be dealt with ###. We pray that you reshape our sister in Christ and that by your refining fire, she will be a woman who will be a pleasing offering to you.
Ultimately, we pray that your Holy Spirit helps her to be fully and only committed to you. We pray that Christ will work in her life to be grateful for His provision and to wait on HIS perfect timing. We pray that whomever He selects for her will shine brightly for Christ and be a cause for glory to God.
Trust the Lord your God with all your Heart and Lean not on your own understanding... In all your ways acknowledge Him and the Lord will direct your path.
Holy Father, we ask this in Christ Jesus.
Amen.
Welcome! "Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God" (Rom 15:7). Trust that God has a purpose for your presence here. Let's stand united in prayer, believing for breakthroughs! 
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