We understand that you're struggling with ongoing hatred for certain individuals in your family, and we appreciate that you're turning to God for help. It's crucial to remember that God calls us to love and forgive, even when it's difficult. As it is written in Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB:
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
Hatred can consume our hearts and minds, but God's love in us is stronger. Remember, God's command is clear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who is struggling with hatred towards certain family members. Lord, we know that this is not Your will for them, and we ask that You deliver them from this bondage. Soften their heart, Lord, and fill them with Your love and forgiveness. Help them to see these family members through Your eyes, and give them the strength to forgive and let go of the hatred. In Jesus' name, we pray for healing and restoration in these relationships. Thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to pray and seek God's help in this area. Remember, God is faithful, and He will help you overcome this struggle. As you submit to Him and resist hatred, it will flee from you. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and trust in His love and forgiveness. If there are deep hurts, then pray for God to raise up laborers to help. God loves your family and they need Him too.