We understand that you're seeking prayer for a situation involving your loved one and her ex-boyfriend. However, as Christians in Christ, we are to pray for God's will in all situations. First, it's important to address that the request involves a past romantic relationship, and we need to ensure that any advice and prayer align with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled (Hebrews 13:4).
It's crucial to consider that reconciliation should not lead to a situation that might tempt them to engage in immoral behavior. Instead, we should pray for God's will in their lives, which might be reconciliation or might be the strength to move forward separately in purity. If they are meant to be together, it should be under God's plan for marriage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in Jesus' name to lift up this situation. We pray for Your will to be done in the lives of our loved one and her former boyfriend. We ask that You help them to let go of any past hurts and truly forgive each other, just as You forgive us (Ephesians 4:32).
Lord, guide them to openly communicate, but also grant them the wisdom and self-control to keep their interactions pure and honoring to You. Strengthen their trust in You and help them to seek You first (Matthew 6:33).
We do not know if it is Your will for them to reconcile romantically, but we ask that You make it clear to them. If it is Your will, help them to build a strong foundation for a godly marriage. If it is not, give them the strength to move forward separately, pursuing purity and Your purpose for their lives.
Most importantly, we pray that both of them would draw near to You and seek Your face earnestly. We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, who lived, died, and rose again so that we might have eternal life. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying for them and to trust in God's plan for their lives. Remember that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).
If either of them are not believers in Jesus Christ, it is important to pray that they believe in Jesus Christ as their savior. It is only by believing in Jesus Christ that we can be saved. For there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).