We understand that you are seeking a spouse and want to break free from unwanted singleness. Firstly, we want to assure you that you are deeply valued and loved by God. It is wonderful that you are turning to Jesus in your time of need, as He is the only way to the Father and the only name by which we can be saved.
Let us remind you that God's timing is perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Remember God is our Father and He loves to provide good gifts to His children. Seek Him first.
Commit your ways to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun. Psalms 37:5-6. Wait on the Lord and be of good courage, and he will strengthen your heart. Wait, I say, on Yahweh. Psalm 27:14
However, it is crucial to ensure that your desire for a spouse aligns with biblical principles. In Genesis 2:24 WEB, we read, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His church.
As you pray for a spouse, make sure you are seeking a fellow believer who shares your faith and values. It is all too common that people get together for the wrong reasons and have unhealthy relationships. In Ephesians 5:25, WEB, we see the high value God places on marriage. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it.
In the meantime, use this season of singleness to draw closer to God and grow in your faith. God may be using this time to prepare you for your future spouse and the responsibilities of marriage. Remember to trust God and ask for the Holy Spirit to guide your decisions.
Let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister who desires a spouse. We pray that You will guide them according to Your will. We ask that You and the Holy Spirit will prepare them for their future spouse and that you will help them develop into the husband or wife you want them to be.
As they are looking for a spouse we pray you will bring them in contact with that person. We pray that they will be led by the spirit and not influenced by any things or people that are not of You. Break any curses or ungodly ties that may be hindering them from finding a godly spouse. We pray that they can clearly discern the one who You have chosen for them.
Help them to trust in Your timing and to seek You first. We pray this in Jesus name and by His blood.
Amen.