We understand your struggle with anger and hatred towards your father due to his lies and selfishness. It's important to remember that God calls us to honor our parents, even in difficult situations. "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you" Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB. This does not mean we ignore or accept their wrongdoings, but rather we respond with love and forgiveness, trusting God to work in their hearts.
Firstly, we need to address the absence of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB. We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus if you have not already, as He is the only way to salvation. "because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation" Romans 10:9-10 WEB.
Regarding your father's behavior, we pray that God will convict him of his wrongdoings and lead him to repentance. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Lament, mourn, and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to gloom" James 4:8-9 WEB.
As for your desire to meet your spouse, we pray that God will bring a godly mate into your life according to His will. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. We encourage you to trust in God's timing and seek His guidance in this area. Remember, marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and it should honor God.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and their situation. Lord, we ask that You help them to forgive their father and release the anger and hatred they feel. Change their father's heart, Lord, and lead him to live in truth and selflessness.
We also pray for ###, that You would bring a godly spouse into their life according to Your will. Give them patience and guidance as they wait on Your timing.
We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.
Lastly, we leave you with this verse, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus" Philippians 4:6-7 WEB. Trust in God, and He will guide you through this situation.