We are glad to join you in prayer as you seek a husband. We believe that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and we trust that He will bring the right godly man for you at the right time. In 1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB, it is written, That the wife is bound by the law as long as her husband lives, but if her husband is dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wants, only in the Lord. However, in her case, she is happier if she so remains, after my judgment, and I think that I also have God's Spirit. From this verse and many others, we know that marriage is a sacred union designed by God to be between a man and a woman who both believe in Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
As you wait and pray, remember Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious sister in Christ who desires a husband. Lord, You know the depths of her heart and the plans You have for her life. We pray that You will guide her steps, and in Your perfect timing, bring a godly husband into her life. Help her to trust in You, to wait patiently, and to prepare herself for the role of a wife as described in your Word.
In Proverbs 31:10-31 WEB, we find the virtuous woman who is worth is far above rubies. Her husband praises her saying her price is far above rubies. Help her prepare to be this kind of wife be it in her conduct, her care of her home and family, or her business dealings. Keep her from evil and help her maintain her purity before you. Help her live in a way that makes her worthy of such praise. Help her to be the kind of wife that you would have her to be.
Protect her from wrong relationships and wrong choices. Help her to avoid relationships that are not ordained by You and that are outside Your will. Help her to avoid any relationship if fornication or adultery is involved. If she is currently involved in a relationship outside of your will or a sinful relationship, then make her aware of her sin and the need to repent and change her behavior. Help her to avoid any relationship where there is no marriage commitment or marriage is not the goal. Help her to avoid any relationship where the other person is not a Christian. My son, keep your father's command, and don't forsake your mother's teaching. Bind them continually on your heart. Tie them around your neck. When you walk, it will lead you. When you sleep, it will watch over you. When you awake, it will talk with you. For the commandment is a lamp, and the law is light. Reproofs of instruction are the way of life, (Proverbs 6:20-23 WEB).
Give her the wisdom and discernment to recognize the man You have chosen for her. Help her to be the Proverbs 31 woman who can be a suitable helper for her husband. We ask for the blessing of a godly husband for her. One who will love her as Christ loves the church and gave himself for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).
Father, until that day comes, we ask that You continue to strengthen her faith and fill her with joy and peace in believing. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.
In Jesus Name, Amen