We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are in and the distress it is causing you. First, we want to remind you that God cares about every detail of our lives, and He wants us to come to Him with our concerns. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and any relationship that does not align with this can lead to heartache and pain.
The Bible is clear about adultery, Coveting your neighbor's wife is forbidden. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife; Exodus 20:17 (WEB). The fact that the woman you have feelings for is involved with a married man is deeply concerning. This is a sinful relationship that God disapproves of. As followers of Christ, we must not partake in or condone such actions. You are right to be concerned for her, but the goal should be to pray for her repentance and restoration, not to marry her while she is entangled in sin.
We also need to address the fact that your message does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved or pray Acts 4:12. We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you have not already done so, and to pray in His name.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this dear ### who is in distress. Lord, he loves a woman who is involved in a sinful relationship, and his heart is heavy. We pray for his healing and for Your guidance in his life. Help him to seek You first and to trust in Your timing and Your will for his life.
Lord, we also pray for the woman involved. We pray that You would convict her heart and draw her out of this adulterous relationship. Help her to see the error of her ways and to turn to You for forgiveness and restoration.
We pray that the man involved would also be convicted of his sin and that he would repent and turn to You. Lord, we pray for the protection and well-being of the family affected by this sin.
Father, we ask that You would guide them and help them to live according to Your Holy Word. Bring godly influences into their lives to show them the paths of righteousness for His name sake. May this situation be transformed for Your glory.
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. When you are tempted to despair, remember that God is with you and will give you the strength you need to endure. Put your hope in Him, and He will see you through even the darkest of times. We encourage you to meditate on His Word and to seek His will for your life. Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB).
God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him and in His timing. He is the God of hope and restoration. May His will be done in your life and in the life of the woman you care for.