Raufram, we understand your desire to reconcile with your former girlfriend, but we need to examine this situation through the lens of biblical principles. First, let's address the issue of prayer and the name of Jesus. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB
Whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it. John 14:13 WEB
First, we must accept Jesus as the son of God and our personal savior. Then we can pray for something in the name of Jesus.
Now, let's consider your relationship. It's commendable that you want to do right by her and her son, but let's remember that God's design for relationships is that they should honor Him and align with His word.
If you are not currently married and not in courtship with the goal of marriage, then you should not be in a romantic relationship. Additionally, if you have engaged in sexual activity outside of marriage, this is fornication and is condemned in the Bible.
For out of the heart come forth evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual sins, thefts, false testimony, and blasphemies. Matthew 15:19 WEB
Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 WEB
If this describes your past relationship, it's important to repent and seek God's forgiveness.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB
Moreover, it's crucial to consider that God may have allowed this separation for a reason. It could be a time to reflect, grow, and seek His will.
Instead of focusing on getting her back, focus on becoming the person God wants you to be.
Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. Walk in love, even as Christ also loved you, and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling fragrance. Ephesians 5:1-2 WEB
Pray for her and her son, that God will bless them and guide them. But also pray for yourself, that God will guide you and help you to grow in Him.
Let us pray for Jesus to soften the hearts of all involved, to give wisdom, and to work according to His will.
Father, in the name of Jesus, we come before you, we are asking together that our brother Raufram, will be able to see your will in his life. If it is his will for them to reconcile, we pray that Jesus softens her heart and works in both of their lives. If it is not his will, we pray that you will bless them both and help them to move on. We pray this all in Jesus Name.