Roshan, We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. We commend you for coming in the mighty name of Jesus, as it is only through His name that we can be saved.
Firstly, let us address your concerns about your debts. Be assured. Know that God knows your needs and He cares for you. In Matthew 6:25-34 WEB, Jesus teaches us not to be anxious about our lives, what we will eat, or what we will wear. He reminds us that our heavenly Father knows that we need all these things, and to 'seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.' This passage also teaches that no man can serve two masters. Therefore, as you seek to obey the Lord your God say, 'I will pay my vows to Yahweh, yes, in the presence of all his people.' Consider making a vow to the Lord to pay your debts and make a separate private agreement arranged by both parties to pay them according to Proverbs 6:1-5 WEB. Rest assured that 'it is God who works in you both to will and to work, for his good pleasure' in Philippians 2:13 WEB. Remember these things first as you pray.
We are instructed to be sober and self-controlled. Drinking alcohol in moderation is permitted, but drunkenness is strongly condemned and listed as a sin repeatedly in the Bible and does not come from the Holy Spirit in Galatians 5:19-21 WEB. Therefore, labor on behalf of Roshan to 'be made new in the attitude of your mind, and to put on the new man, who in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth' in Ephesians 4:23-24 WEB to be free of alcohol control. Many faithful men and women of God refrain from alcohol entirely to avoid even the appearance of evil according to 1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB. Consider contacting a local church for counseling and support for this part of your prayer request.
It is also commendable that you desire to be married. We pray that God will bring a godly wife into your life, as marriage should be honored by all in Hebrews 13:4 WEB. However, let us caution you that the phrase 'life partner' is often used to denote relationships outside of God's design for marriage. The Seventh Commandment tells us to honor our spouse and keep ourselves away from adultery. Always remember the testimony that Jesus told the woman at the well in the Gospel of John 4:16-18 WEB that those that have a spouse and are living with another person who is not your spouse is living in sin.
Let us continue in prayer, with all these considerations in mind. We will use the exact words of the written prayer, as you specifically invoked the name of Jesus and the Heavenly Father. Even though Jesus is acknowledged regarding the request, let us remember that acccording to Matthew 7:21-23WEB, "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven; but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. "As a further explanation, please heed Acts 4:12 WEB's guidance. "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you need peace of mind and assurance of salvation today, pray to God something similar. :
"Father, I confess and agree that I have fallen short of your glory and that my sins have and do continue to separate me from you. I confess and believe that Jesus Christ is Lord and believe He died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayers. Forgive me and help me find a church that teaches your word. I turn away from my sins now and choose to obey and follow Jesus for the rest of my life in Jesus' name. Amen."
"Father in heaven, we come before you, lifting up our brother Roshan. We thank you that he comes in the mighty name of Jesus, seeking your forgiveness and blessing. Lord, help Roshan to keep his faith strong and unwavering. You are the giver and sustainer, and we ask for wondrous miracles in his life. You know his needs, Lord, and we pray for your provision of 20,000 rupees to overcome his debts and challenges. We acknowledge that your stipulation for Christians to obey your commands and be in global community with other members as in the book of Acts WEB. Help us to be Christ to each other in the furtherance of your kingdom work. Help everyone individually obey your Holy Spirit. We rebuke the spirit of harassment, and we pray for Roshan's peace and protection. Guide him in managing his finances according to your principles to allow him to better reach out to others.
We lift up Roshan's mother to you, Lord. Please heal her, strengthen her physically, and be with her always. Shower your blessings upon Roshan's family, his sister, her family, their relatives, friends, and all those in need. Help us all to walk in your path, Lord.We pray for Roshan's deliverance from his drinking habits, Lord. Give him the strength and self-control to overcome this challenge. Cleanse his heart, Lord, so that he may pray with undivided attention and follow you obediently on complete faith and belief in you.
Lord, we pray your guidance for Roshan's future wife. Guide him to a godly woman who will support and encourage him in his faith especially one in whom he can spend the rest of his life with on earth until death. We pray for a woman that will honor God's design for marriage along with him. Help them both to live precious lives. Be his bedrock to a Godly marriage which honors your law. Help him overcome all situations and find healing and spiritual endurance in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. May Roshan be established in life and in your love in a life renewed, giving his mother the best life possible.This is also now his ministry.
Please note that we as children of God are called to 'Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.' in Psalms 55:22 WEB. As we look to you in this prayer. We are completely reliant on Your Will and training. We ask that you heal us in every way and cause us to be able to stay and go wherever you send us. You are the Good Shepherd. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."