Prayer Request

[Urwenn]

I'm writing to you today with a heavy heart, seeking your urgent prayers and support. I'm currently living in the UK. I'm facing a multitude of challenges that have left me feeling overwhelmed, lost, and struggling with my mental health. I've always been driven by a desire for knowledge and achievement, graduating with excellent marks and pursuing further education. However, since graduating six months ago, I've been unable to find stable employment. Despite countless applications, I've faced constant rejection, and even in the few interviews I've secured, I've struggled to articulate myself due to severe anxiety. This has been a devastating blow to my self-esteem and has left me feeling like a failure. Beyond the job search, I'm battling several other issues:

- **Loss of Direction:** I feel lost and unsure of my purpose. I've gained a lot of knowledge but struggle to apply it meaningfully in my life.
- **Mood Struggles:** I experience significant mood swings and struggle with my emotional well-being. I sometimes have thoughts of self-harm.
- **Relationship Concerns:** I deeply love my girlfriend, who lives in ### (I am from ###), but I often feel unworthy of her and worry about the impact of my struggles on our long-distance relationship.
- **Spiritual Disconnect:** I was raised in the Christian faith but have drifted away over the years, which has contributed to my sense of disorientation.
- **Addiction:** I'm struggling with a pornography addiction, which further exacerbates my depression and self-loathing.

I recognize that I've had a journey of pride, and I'm learning the importance of humility. I understand that I need to change, and I'm willing to seek help. I know I need professional help for my mental health, and I am looking into accessing those services. Recently, I've found some comfort in watching Paul Dhinakaran's sermons, which have soothed my spirit and lifted me up. However, I know that ultimately, I need to cultivate my own personal relationship with God through prayer. I struggle to pray for myself right now. It feels difficult to connect and express my needs directly. I know putting all my faith in someone else is not right, and I understand the importance of personal prayer, but at this moment, I find it incredibly challenging. This is another area where I desperately need your prayers.

I'm reaching out to this prayer group because I desperately need spiritual support. I feel lost and alone, and I know that the power of prayer can bring healing, guidance, and strength. Please pray for:

- **Guidance and direction:** That I may find clarity about my purpose and find suitable employment.
- **Healing and mental well-being:** That I find healing from anxiety, low mood, and the addiction I struggle with.
- **Strength and resilience:** To overcome these challenges and find hope for the future.
- **My relationship:** That my relationship with my girlfriend remains strong and that I can be a supportive partner to her.
- **Spiritual reconnection:** That I may find my way back to faith and find peace and comfort in God's love.
- **The ability to pray:** That I can find the strength and connection to pray for myself and develop a deeper personal relationship with God.

I understand that God works through many avenues, including professional help, and I am pursuing that as well. However, I believe in the power of prayer and ask for your collective prayers during this difficult time. Thank you for your compassion and support.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the multitude of challenges you're facing, ###, but we are glad you've taken the courageous step to reach out for prayer and support. We are here to intercede on your behalf and to provide biblical guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, we want to acknowledge your struggles with employment, self-esteem, and anxiety. It's important to remember that our value is not determined by our employment status or achievements, but by the fact that we are created in God's image. As it is written in Genesis 1:27, "God created man in his own image. In God's image he created him; male and female he created them." Also, 1 Peter 5:7 reminds us we should cast our anxieties on Him, because He cares for us.

Regarding your relationship, we need to address this from a biblical perspective. The Bible teaches us to flee sexual immorality, have self-control and to keep the marriage bed pure. It is important that you both are believers with the goal of marriage. We are to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. The goal of an alliance between a man and woman should be with a goal towards marriage. You mentioned that you are struggling with pornography. It is important to address this immoral behavior because it can cause further damage to the relationship you have with your girlfriend and future wife. Pornography will also hinder your relationship with God. Please read and pray about 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Also Ephesians 5:3-5, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks. Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God." Once you decide you would like to pursue a marriage, then we recommend to read 1st Corinthians chapter 7 for further guidance. It is important to note that fornication, adultery, and all other sexual sins are forgivable when you confess, repent, and ask for forgiveness. But, just because they are forgivable does not mean you will not face the consequences of these sins. Finally do not be deceived. It says clearly in the Bible meaning of the words, the examples in the Bible, and the consequences of the sins discussed here.

We are concerned about your mental health struggles and thoughts of self-harm. It's crucial to seek professional help immediately if you haven't already. Remember God's promise in Philippians 4:6-7, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Regarding your spiritual disconnect, it is essential to understand that watching sermons is great but it is no substitute for Bible Study. It is good to hear what others say about the word of God in a sermon. But, it is important to study the Bible yourself, too. The Bible says that in the last days many false teachers will come. Some will even twist the Bible to make it say what they want it to say. I also remind you what the Bible says 2nd John 1:9-11. Your prayer should always have two parts. First, confess your sins and repent from them and ask for forgiveness. The second part is to ask anything that is on your heart. It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can enter the presence of God. Remember the gift of the Holy Spirit to help guide you to Jesus when you ask. Jesus says in John 14:6, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, but by me." This is why it is so important to believe in Jesus and always use His name when we pray.

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened.

Addressing other issues, while the Bible encourages us to follow outlined principles, we must also acknowledge and address its stance on pornography addiction. Viewing pornography is a sin of sexual immorality. It is best to confess this sin, ask for forgiveness, repent, and ask God to help you to remove yourself from any temptation to watch pornography.

Let's pray together:

Lord God, we lift up our dear ### to you. Father, you know the struggles and challenges they are facing. Lord God we ask, in the name of Jesus Christ, that you guide our dear ### to the right resources for employment and that they find a good job here in the UK. Lord God, please intervene also and help remove our dear ### from any temptation or thought of self-harm. We are reminded by your word in 1 Corinthians 10:13, that you are faithful and will not let them be tempted beyond what they can bear, but along with the temptation, provide them a way of escape. Most importantly, we ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ.

We are also reminded by your word in Isaiah 41:10, "Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand."

Finally, it is important to pursue courtship with the goal of marriage, a Christian marriage, where both believe in Jesus Christ and the Bible. It is important to remember the fruits of the spirit in Galatians 5:22-23. The fruits of the spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such there is no law. If you love your boyfriend or girlfriend by the definition in 1st Corinthians 13 then you are less likely do something or say something that you think could lead to a future divorce. The Bible says to treat your spouse as you would want them to treat you. Be selfless, instead of selfish but only if you are also being treated the same. The Bible believes in a loving God, with loving discipline.

So it is the same learning to love your boyfriend or girlfriend, spouse, husband, or wife. No matter what context you are in, we are to act in love.

So ###, we appreciate your openness and honesty. Let us remind you that in the Bible we find how to live with our heavenly Father forever, when we are physically dead. Please let us know how our prayers are working in your life with the Holy Spirit. Please also let us know how we can pray more specifically for you. It is only in the name of Jesus Christ, that we have access to go to God and be saved.

We also encourage you to re-engage with a local Bible-believing church community for support and fellowship with other believers. We encourage an open confession to your pastor or a fellow believer. This is important because the Bible says that we cannot see sin in ourselves. To not forsake the fellowship of other believers will help to keep us from being deceived about our sin.

Remember, our prayers are a sweet fragrance to God through Jesus Christ (Revelation 5:8).

God bless you ###, In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior and soon returning King.

 

[hostadmin]

Hi Urwenn,

We're here for you, and we're praying for you. We know that life can feel overwhelming at times, and it's okay to ask for help. We're glad you've reached out to us.

Firstly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking professional help for your mental health. It's a sign of strength, not weakness, to acknowledge that you need support. We'll be praying for you and the healthcare professionals that you'll be working with.

Regarding your job search, we believe that God has a plan for you. We're asking Him to guide you to the right opportunities and to give you the confidence you need to excel in interviews. We also pray that you'll find a job that aligns with your skills, passion, and purpose.

We're also praying for your relationship with your girlfriend. We believe that God can strengthen and bless your relationship. We ask that He would give you both wisdom, understanding, and patience as you navigate this long-distance dynamic. We pray that your love for each other would grow stronger and that you would both be a source of support and encouragement to one another.

We want to remind you that God is always with you, even in the midst of your struggles. We pray that you would experience His comfort, peace, and strength in a powerful way. We believe that He has a purpose for your life, and we're asking Him to reveal that purpose to you.

Please keep us updated on how you're doing. We're here to support and encourage you in any way we can. Remember, you're not alone. We're in this with you, and so is God.

In Jesus' Name, we pray.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for ### and family for blessings, healing, and salvation. Heal and bless with jobs and source of income. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto ###, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to hold you up in prayer, dear friend from the UK, and we are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. It has been a few days since you shared your heart with us, and we hope that you have felt the comfort and strength that comes from knowing that you are not alone in your struggles.

If you have seen any improvements in your situation, we would be overjoyed to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, as it encourages and fuels our faith, helping us to pray with even more conviction.

If you are still feeling overwhelmed, lost, or struggling with your mental health, employment, relationship, or spiritual journey, please do not hesitate to post an update. We want to continue praying for you and continue supporting you. We are committed to praying for your guidance, healing, strength, relationship, spiritual reconnection, and your ability to pray.

We pray that you will find stable employment that aligns with your purpose, and that you will be healed from anxiety, low moods, and your addiction. We pray that your relationship with your girlfriend will remain strong, and that you will find your way back to faith, finding peace and comfort in God's love. We pray that you will be able to develop a deeper personal relationship with God, and that you will find the strength and connection to pray for yourself.

Remember, our God is a faithful God, and He works in His timing. Continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are here with you, praying for you, and believing for your breakthrough in Jesus Name.