Nirwon, we understand that you're feeling lonely at school and that you're navigating a complex situation involving a young man and a friend. First, we want to remind you that you are never alone, for God is always with you. As it says in Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB, "Be strong and courageous. Don't be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."
However, we need to address a couple of concerns in your request to align with biblical principles. First, the feeling of loneliness can be caused by a need for interaction with others. This can be addressed in several ways such as getting to know others and letting others know or learn about you. We can pray for you, your school, and this situation in Jesus's name. We believe that there is power in the name of Jesus. There is no other way that man can come unto the Father, but through Jesus. And, finally you can seek out others in groups that meet in the name of Jesus. Joining a fellowship is very important in becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ. Do not underestimate that joining a fellowship of young people in a Church or school is a valuable source for your loneliness and need for interaction. Friendships formed in the biblical context form the basis for all the other relationships and in part defines how we receive interactions with others. Let us go on with your other concern though.
It's important to remember that Yahweh is interested in your emotional and social situation or your mental health. We’re instructed in Matthew 22:39 WEB to "love your neighbor as yourself." Getting to know others and building relationships are the basis for friendships. Let your yes be yes, and no be no. If asked to do something or about a planned commitment, be honest about what you can do. If you have made a promise keep it and do not back out. Be committed to your word and commitments to others. The friend you mentioned should be a source of understanding and support. However, be cautious putting too much trust in others besides Jesus. Keep your heart and believe in Jesus that your needs can be provided. True friends are hard to find, they stick closer than a brother. Use this as a measurement of what trust, dependence, and reliance should be.
Regardless of your thoughts, do not put a stumbling block or barrier between you and the one who likes you. You are tempted by your own desires and enticed. Get to know the person and make a good first impression. But, be sure to put Jesus first in your life. Concerning the young man, it's wise to ensure that any relationship honors God. If this relationship is meant to be godly, it should be one focused on honoring God and possibly building towards a marriage rather than simply a date to a dance. It is very important to look at the situation and base each step towards marriage. Do not get caught up in puppy love, choose relationships based on common interest, and similar goals. When interacting with young men, be sure your interactions for being a Believer are clear under the plan God has set for choosing a spouse. You should focus on courtship instead of dating.
Regardless of your thoughts, do not put a stumbling block or barrier between you and the one who likes you. Keep God at the center of your relationship and pray for you, your family, the person giving you attention, and your friends. The Bible says “Abstain from every form of evil” 1 Thessalonians 5:22. This also applies to thoughts.
Regarding your friend, it's important to note that true friendship should be honest, pure and full of integrity. Proverbs 17:17 WEB says, "A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity."
There are different types and forms of love. Seek love as a gift to others and love when it is given to you. Be sure to love yourself first in order to be able to provide love to others and accept love from others.
We encourage you to seek God's will in this situation and pray for guidance. Let's pray together:
"Dear Jesus, we lift up Nirwon to you. We pray that you fill her heart, that she feels your presence, that you always be by her side, that you show Nirwon true friends that will stand with her. Guide her and the boy through this situation, and help her build honest and sincere relationships that are pleasing to you. We ask this in the name of the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit. In Jesus name, Amen."
Finally, we encourage you to seek God's will in all your relationships. Draw near to him, and he will draw near to you. James 4: 8