Flewethumn
Disciple of Prayer
My partner and I decided to fix things and move in together. So I have spiritual attacks especially on my reproductive organ that also affect our relationship. My partner is also the father of our 3-year-old child; he normally leaves us, and I am left to pick up the pieces when we break up. Thank God, most of the time I have work or finances to look after the child and me. So currently, there was a prophecy I heard in church during preaching that we should not stay where we are currently renting. I didn't even know until we moved here and started experiencing challenges. So, my partner decided to cheat and has been neglecting the child and me and treating us badly. He apologized, and we spoke about fixing our relationship and moving to another place because we only have a month in this new place. However, we get spiritual attacks not only on us but on our child as well. We went to church for prayer and to get help for our relationship and daughter. So, this cheating partner of his also stays at the place premises we rent now; they are bitter and angry that my partner was only using them. All they hear is that he only loves me. So, now he left and went at the beginning of the month; it's been 19 days, busy postponing to return home. Before he left, the landlord told him that we cannot be three in the room we are currently facing. I have been requesting us to get a proper place that can accommodate all of us. What saddens me is that because of his cheating, he was willing to separate us instead of getting a place together. So, now we are arguing, and he blames me for that. He has been saying he is returning every day for the past 19 days but also at our place, I hear how they say they will block his return and how they also pray for our relationship not to prosper. I am asking for help because my contract ended in June, and now I am without a job to look after the child or myself. Now we have to rely on people to provide for us, of which they attack me and the child. I am even also afraid because I suspect they put things inside our room to cause problems. The girls he had been cheating with confess that their plan is to send the child and me home so they can benefit—to eat. Almost everywhere I go, I have been getting attacks; I end up fighting with people. Now I have to ask someone to help the child and me, and I don't even know who to ask or where to start since he is upset. He goes to this church of his called Masao, where they instruct him to do wrong things. I heard the lady of that church is also staying in our premises; she advised him to go home and not text me unless I do. They even advise him on the phone not to take me but to take another girl just because the night before he slept holding a picture of mine on his phone. I also know he does not like cheating or sleeping with these girls. I just pray he will make this right because I am on the verge of leaving this place with the child to get help. Even my family started treating me badly; they said it's unfair treatment. I don't know who I can ask for help. We started running out of basic needs; it's sad now that I have to rely on people, and I don't even know who. He keeps promising me to return every single day. Every day he will go buy a bus ticket; he will go catch a bus. When I was working from 2023 to mid-2024, it was only a 1-year contract; I was alone and barely managing. He was not present 100% to assist with the child because I did not allow him to come visit us. It's because in 2023 we had the same argument; he was cheating and got caught because the girl called his phone. I was not willing to fix our relationship or be intimate with him; he quit his job and went home, not thinking about the child. He is doing it again, leaving us to return home instead of praying and fixing this. Kindly please pray for me. It's even sad how he can go out and do his basic needs and neglecting the child as if he does not have one. I have been praying and asking for advice to pray and ask for love back in our relationship, but I want to go because I am exhausted; it's now affecting the child's health. I prayed and asked him to save our family; can we all move to find a better place? I have been praying for love back and praying against these spiritual attacks that are affecting our family.