Prayer request on marital unfaithfulness accusation by spouse

Tortriel · Oct 14, 2024

My prayer request is that my husband of 21 years whom I love so much has been accusing me of being unfaithful during the whole period of our marriage. This is not true as I have been faithful the whole time and till now. I tried to tell him that I have been faithful but he won't listen. He pushed me so much that he had videos of me and wanted to publish the video. I stopped him knowing that people make videos that are not true and I feared for my reputation and children, so he did not publish it. He pushed me so much that I ended up agreeing to affairs that I never had in a way of resolving our issues. What started small grew as he now forced a list of names on me that I had slept with those men and he was so forceful that I submitted to all the men he mentioned. He went on to even say that I had slept with all sorts of men including animals and this I ended up agreeing as he has been so forceful on me. He even made me write and also he recorded all the conversations without me knowing. On two occasions I went up to him that all these are lies and that I could not continue implicating innocent people on things that they have not done. Things became so bad as he threatened to expose all that I wrote and he also beat me. My sin that I acknowledge is that I failed to stand for myself and allowed him to force me accept things that I never did. I am so broken and ask for prayers. I have been praying and the more I pray the worse it is getting. Please pray for me as I am so broken.

Articles · Oct 14, 2024

We are deeply saddened to hear about the accusations and abuse you're enduring in your marriage, ###. Let us first assure you that God knows the truth and He is a refuge for the oppressed. We will pray with you and provide guidance based on the Word of God.

**Psalm 56:8-11 (WEB)**
*"You have kept track of my wanderings. You have kept a record of my tears. Aren’t they in your book? Then my enemies will turn back in the day that I call. I know this: that God is on my side. In God, I praise his word. In Yahweh, I praise his word. I have trusted in God. I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?"*

**First, let's pray together:**

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ###. Lord, You know the truth and see the injustice she is facing. We ask for Your divine intervention in her marriage. Please bring conviction to her husband's heart and help him see the truth. Provide ### with strength, wisdom, and courage to stand firm in Your truth. Protect her and her children, and heal the pain and brokenness she feels. Guide her every step, Lord, and let Your will be done in her life and marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

###, it is crucial to remember that **God hates dishonesty and false accusations (Proverbs 6:16-19)**. It is not God's will for you to falsely confess to unfaithfulness to appease your husband. You must **stand firm in the truth**, trusting that God will be your defender.

**Ephesians 6:13-14 (WEB)**
*"Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth..."*

We also need to address that physical abuse is never acceptable. Your safety and that of your children is paramount. If you are in immediate danger, please seek help from local authorities or support services for victims of domestic abuse.

**Psalm 140:1-4 (WEB)**
*"Deliver me, Yahweh, from the evil man. Preserve me from the violent man; those who devise mischief in their hearts. They continually gather themselves together for war. They have sharpened their tongues like a serpent. Viper’s poison is under their lips."*

Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. Remember that **it is only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6)**. We encourage you to **call upon His name** in your times of distress and trust in Him for salvation and deliverance.

**Joel 2:32 (WEB)**
*"It will happen that whoever will call on Yahweh’s name shall be saved..."*

Stay strong in the faith, ###, and keep your eyes on Jesus. He is faithful and will see you through this trial. Continue to pray and seek God's face, and we will join you in praying for His divine intervention.

hostadmin · Oct 14, 2024

Dear ###,

We've been praying for you and your situation. We're so sorry that you're going through this. It's heartbreaking to see how your husband's accusations and actions have caused you such pain. We want you to know that we're here for you, lifting you up in prayer.

We've been reflecting on Psalm 34:18, which says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We believe that God is close to you, ###, and He sees your pain. He is a God of justice, and He will not let your cries go unheard.

We've been interceding for you, asking God to:

- Reveal the truth to your husband and soften his heart.
- Give you the strength and wisdom to stand firm in the truth, even in the face of adversity.
- Protect you and your children from further harm.
- Heal the brokenness in your heart and restore your joy.
- Guide you every step of the way, helping you to trust in Him.

We also want to remind you of the importance of truth, as we saw in John 8:32, "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." It's crucial that you continue to speak the truth in love, even when it's difficult.

Please, please, if you feel threatened or in danger, prioritize your safety and that of your children. Seek help from local authorities or support services.

We're here for you, ###. We'll continue to pray for you, and we hope you feel our love and support. Remember, you're not alone. God is with you, and so are we.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Tortriel · Oct 14, 2024

Thank you for your prayers and as you pray for me my name is ###.

usha rani · Oct 14, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Oct 14, 2024

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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hostadmin · Oct 20, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

Tortriel · Oct 21, 2024

My prayer request is that my husband of 21 years whom I love so much has been accusing me of being unfaithful during the whole period of our marriage. This is not true as I have been faithful the whole time and till now. I tried to tell him that I have been faithful but he won't listen. He pushed me so much that he had videos of me and wanted to publish the video. I stopped him knowing that people make videos that are not true and I feared for my reputation and children, so he did not publish it. He pushed me so much that I ended up agreeing to affairs that I never had in a way of resolving our issues. What started small grew as he now forced a list of names on me that I had slept with those men and he was so forceful that I submitted to all the men he mentioned. He went on to even say that I had slept with all sorts of men including animals and this I ended up agreeing as he has been so forceful on me. He even made me write and also he recorded all the conversations without me knowing. On two occasions I went up to him that all these are lies and that I could not continue implicating innocent people on things that they have not done. Things became so bad as he threatened to expose all that I wrote and he also beat me. My sin that I acknowledge is that I failed to stand for myself and allowed him to force me accept things that I never did. I am so broken and ask for prayers. I have been praying and the more I pray the worse it is getting. Please pray for me as I am so broken. I submit my prayer request in Jesus name.