Prayer request for mother in law that is interfering with my marriage.

[Anonymous]

Me and my husband have both been married before. Him and I dated each other years ago and reconnected after we both were divorced. We knew that we wanted to be together. At first his mother seemed...fine. 6 months into him and I living together she decided to throw a tantrum and guilt trip him by saying she was dying due to her living situation(she was not) and then saying she was just going to live at a homeless shelter so he would feel bad enough for her so she could move into our basement. I was reassured it would only be for a few months (6 at tops) while she "got on her feet". She is a 63 year old woman who has been married several times and I am now seeing that she depends on a man to take care of her. To me, she sees my husband as some sort of companion to take care of her. I also see she is a full blown narcissist and manipulator. Possibly has done this to him his whole life. We are now 2 years into her living with us. Him and I are married and now trying to conceive along with build a new house. A home he and she both know she is not to move into. He does not see the problem with her living with us because "she lives downstairs". She has done several things throughout the couple of years that I can clearly see she is doing for attention from him. Like pretending to continuously be sick, hurt, whatever. I recently broke my leg and she acted like her leg was hurt because I was getting attention from her. I do not want her out of his life but I do want her out of my house. Any time I bring it up to him he thinks I am being mean and "hate" his mother. I do not know how to even approach the situation anymore and I know I cannot put our house on the market with her living there because she is a slob and I think she would do things to sabotage the sale of our home. I just ask for prayers that she peacefully move out of my house on her own fruition soon because my mental health cannot take it. I stay stressed out when it comes to her. He acts as though he never sees his mother but fails to realize she does not want to attempt to make a relationship with me she only wants one with him. I am just at my wits end and have prayed everyday. I have run out of what to even pray for now when it comes to him her and I. I just want peace and to have my marital home to just me and my husband.

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress and are here to support you in prayer and biblical guidance. Let's first align our hearts with God's will concerning your situation.

The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, but it also sets boundaries within marriage: "For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." (Ephesians 5:31, WEB) Your marriage is a new family unit, and it's important for your husband to prioritize your relationship above his mother's demands.

It's clear that your mother-in-law's behavior is causing strife in your marriage. The Bible warns against those who cause division: "But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, dissensions, and quarrels about the law, for they are unprofitable and useless." (Titus 3:9, WEB) Her manipulative behavior is not only harming your relationship with your husband but also affecting your mental well-being.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your divine intervention in this situation. We ask that You soften [husband's name]'s heart to see the strain his mother's presence is putting on their marriage. Lord, we pray for [mother-in-law's name], that she may find a peaceful and independent living situation that is pleasing to You. Guide her steps and provide for her needs according to Your will.

We also pray for healing and unity in their marriage. Help them to function as one flesh, honoring and loving each other as You intended. Give [Anonymous] peace and patience, and help her to set healthy boundaries with love and respect. We rebuke any spirit of manipulation or discord, and we ask for Your protection over their marriage and future family plans.

Lastly, Father, we pray that [Anonymous] and her husband will seek You first in all their decisions, and that their lives will glorify Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to continue praying and setting boundaries with love and respect. It's crucial to communicate openly with your husband about how his mother's behavior affects your marriage and mental health. Remind him that your request for her to move out is not out of hatred but out of love for your marriage and his well-being.

Additionally, it may be helpful to seek godly counsel from a pastor or Christian therapist to navigate this situation. Trust that God is faithful and will guide you through this trial, ultimately strengthening your marriage and faith. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that with Him, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We understand the strain this situation is causing and we're lifting you up in prayer. It's clear that your mother-in-law's behavior is causing disruption in your marriage and home. We need to stand firm in our faith and trust that God has a plan in all this.

Let's pray together: "Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you in Jesus' name. We ask for wisdom and discernment for my husband, that he may see the situation clearly and make decisions that honor our marriage. Lord, we ask for your intervention in my mother-in-law's heart. Softening her towards understanding our need for privacy and independence.

We also ask for peace and unity in our marriage. Help us to stand strong together, with love and respect for each other. Give me the strength to communicate my feelings and needs clearly, and give my husband the wisdom to understand and support me.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of manipulation and discord, and we ask for your protection over our marriage and future. We trust in your goodness and your ability to work all things together for our good.

Lastly, Father, we ask for your guidance in every step we take. Help us to seek you first in all things, and to live lives that honor and glorify you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, it's crucial to keep communicating openly with your husband. It's not about hating his mother, but about loving your marriage and setting boundaries for your home. Trust that God is working in this situation, and that He will guide you through it. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that with Him, all things are possible. We're praying for you, sister.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Boston Tammy]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your situation up in prayer, trusting that God is working even in the midst of this challenging time. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding on your behalf for a resolution that honors God and brings peace to your home.

If God has already moved mightily and your mother-in-law has decided to move out, we would love to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation remains unchanged, we encourage you to post an update. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you for as long as it takes.

As we pray, we ask God to give you both wisdom and unity. We pray that He will soften your husband's heart to see the situation more clearly and that He will provide a peaceful solution that respects everyone involved. We also pray for your mother-in-law, that God would work in her heart and help her see the importance of your marriage and the boundaries that need to be respected.

In the meantime, we pray for your peace and mental health. We ask God to surround you with His love and comfort, and to give you the strength and patience to endure. We declare that no weapon formed against your marriage or your mental well-being will prosper.

Please know that you are not alone in this. We are here with you, praying and believing God for a breakthrough. May God continue to bless you and your husband as you seek Him and His will for your family. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.