Prayer Request For Help With Broken Relationship And Help With A Man's Development And Future Goals

Elisa21 · Jan 17, 2025

Hey, my name is Elisa. I was just in a relationship with a man that I really cared about. His name is Demari. He was the one who ended things. He told me that he has a lot of things in his life that he wants to work on like school, spirituality, and his own mentality. And he says he is not in a good place for a relationship with me right now. I said that I would wait for him but he said that he wouldn't want me to wait for him, that it's not fair to me, and he doesn't know when he'd ever be in a good place for a relationship.

I just wish that he was in a better place for a relationship with me. I really love him. I do think he loves me as well. But most importantly, because I love and care about him a lot, I want him to be able to develop and grow in the areas and ways in which he would like to develop. And to be able to reach his future goals. I admire his focus and just pray that he figures things out. I know he really values setting himself up to reach his long term goals. And I pray that I'll still be something that he still wants in his future. And to one day feel like he's at a place to still have a desire to want to start a relationship with me again. Because I do strongly want a future with him and would want to marry him one day, as he used to say about me a very long time ago, and I would still want to wait for him despite anything. I just really want him to be able to figure things out and for him to still feel like he would want to be with me too.

Articles · Jan 17, 2025

Elisa, we understand your heartache and your desire for Demari to grow and perhaps reunite with you in the future. However, we need to address several things from a biblical perspective.

Firstly, we note that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"

Secondly, we need to address the fact that you were in a relationship. We hope and assume that this relationship was pure and God-honoring. We pray that you both lived in obedience to God's word regarding purity and holiness.

We are instructed in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

We also need to address the fact that Demari has decided to focus on his personal growth, and we should respect that. It is commendable that he wants to improve himself, and it is not wrong for you to want the best for him. However, it is important to align your desires with God's will.

Let's pray together in Jesus' name:

Dear Lord Jesus Christ,

We come before You, lifting up ### and ###. We pray for ###'s growth and development, that You would guide him in Your wisdom and help him achieve the goals You have for him. We pray that ### would find peace and comfort in You during this time and that she would trust in Your perfect will for her life.

Lord, we pray that both ### and ### would draw near to You, resisting the temptations of this world, and living in purity and holiness.

Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that You would reunite ### and ### in Your perfect timing, that You would build a godly marriage that honors and glorifies You. We pray that both of them would be faithful to You and to each other, that they would know You more deeply and live in obedience to Your word. We also pray for ### to wait on You and Your timing for any marriage.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, we encourage you to trust in God's perfect will for your life. Remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Seek His kingdom and righteousness first, and all these things will be added to you. Be strong and courageous, and do not be anxious about the future.

hostadmin · Jan 17, 2025

Hey ###, we've been thinking about you and ###. It's clear you care deeply for him and want the best for his growth and future. We understand your desire for a future together, but we also want to encourage you to focus on your own growth and trust in God's timing.

We believe in the power of prayer and want to lift you up. Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we come before you today, asking for wisdom and guidance. We pray for ###, that he would continue to seek growth and development in all areas of his life. Help him to trust in you and align his desires with your will. We also pray for ###, that she would find peace and comfort in you during this time. Help her to trust in your perfect will for her life and to wait on you for any future relationships.

Lord, we ask that if it's your will, you would bring ### and ### back together in your perfect timing. Help them to build a godly marriage that honors and glorifies you. Help them to be faithful to each other and to you, knowing you more deeply and living in obedience to your word.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, remember, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6) Keep trusting in God, and He will guide your steps. Be strong and courageous, and don't be anxious about the future.

needhelpsobad48 · Jan 17, 2025

Praying in Jesus Name.

usha rani · Jan 17, 2025

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Jan 17, 2025

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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Cinu · Jan 17, 2025

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Jan 23, 2025

We continue to uphold you and ### in our prayers, ###. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding for the restoration of your relationship and for ###'s personal growth.

If you have seen improvements in his life or in your relationship, we would be delighted to hear about it. Your praise report will be an encouragement to us all. If the situation has not changed as you hoped, we invite you to share with us again, so that we can persist in prayer with you.

We pray that God will guide ### in his pursuits, that He will grant ### wisdom and success as he works on his goals. We ask God to bless you both and to reveal His will for your lives.

We pray that God will grant you peace and patience as you wait for His perfect timing. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Trust in Him, for He loves you both more than we ever could.

We pray all these in Jesus Name.