We understand your heartache and concern for your daughter's behavior and the strain it's putting on your relationship. Remember, God's word tells us to "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it" Proverbs 22:6 (WEB). Let's trust in God's promises and continue to pray fervently for your daughter.
Here is a heartfelt prayer for you and your daughter:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this mother and her daughter to You. Father, You know the pain and struggle they are both going through. We ask, Lord, that You would soften the daughter's heart and help her to open up her life to her mother. Give the mom patience, wisdom, and understanding as she navigates this challenging time. As it is asked in Jesus' name, the Holy Spirit will intercede and protect.
Father, we also pray for the daughter's anger. We rebuke the spirit of anger in the name of Jesus, and we ask that You would fill her heart with peace, love, and forgiveness. Help her to understand that "a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" Proverbs 15:1 (WEB).
Lord, we ask that You would also work in the father's heart, giving him the wisdom and courage to guide his daughter in the right way.
We ask this all in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen."
We encourage you to continue being patient and loving, even when it's difficult. Remember, "love is patient, love is kind" 1 Corinthians 13:4 (WEB). Keep praying and trusting in God, and He will honor your faithfulness.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5 (WEB). If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we can be saved and redeemed. "Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" Romans 10:9 (WEB).