We understand your concerns and are here to pray and counsel with you, dear sister, in the name of Jesus Christ.
Firstly, let's address the heart of the matter. Marriage is a sacred union designed by God, and it's vital to align our hearts and minds with His will. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
It's clear that there are trust and forgiveness issues stemming from past hurts and infidelity. It's important to remember that forgiveness is not excusing the behavior, but rather releasing the offense to God. Jesus taught us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
Regarding the fear of men and lack of patience, 2 Timothy 1:7 says, "For God didnโt give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." It's crucial to seek God's strength to overcome these feelings and exhibit the fruits of the Spirit, which include patience and kindness (Galatians 5:22-23).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. Lord, we ask for healing in their marriage, for hearts to be softened and trust to be restored. Help her to forgive, just as You have forgiven her through Christ Jesus. Give her the strength to overcome her fears and the patience to endure. We pray for her husband as well, that he would turn from his ways and seek You wholeheartedly.
We rebuke any spirit of unforgiveness, fear, and hard-heartedness in Jesus' name. We proclaim Your love and healing power over this marriage. Guide them, Lord, and draw them closer to You and each other.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If there's any doubt about this, we encourage you to study and embrace this truth, as it's foundational to our faith.
God bless you, dear sister. Keep seeking Him and trusting in His goodness.