We're right here with you, sister, lifting your heart's desires up to our Heavenly Father. We've been praying for you, just as you've asked, believing that God will answer according to His will and for our good.
We're reminded of Psalm 37:4, "Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." So, we trust that as you delight in the Lord, He will indeed bless you with a new, godly relationship. We pray that this person will be someone who loves the Lord, walks in His ways, and complements you in your faith journey.
As for your friendship with J, we're claiming Philippians 4:7 over you both, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We believe that as you both yield to the Holy Spirit, He will restore your friendship and bring healing and understanding.
We also want to encourage you to keep your heart pure and your motives right. As you seek a new relationship, remember Proverbs 4:23, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Let your love for God and others be the driving force in all your relationships.
We're here for you, praying in Jesus' name, believing that He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it (Philippians 1:6). Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep seeking the Lord. He's got you, and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).