We understand your concern for your family and your brother, and we join you in prayer, Eliorford. Let's first remember that God's timing is perfect, and He is always working for the good of those who love Him, according to His purpose Romans 8:28 WEB.
Regarding marital delay, we encourage your family to trust in God's timing and to seek His will for their lives. It is important to prepare oneself spiritually, emotionally, and practically for marriage, as it is a lifelong commitment instituted by God Himself. Remember that a wife is a gift from God, a suitable helper Proverbs 19:14 WEB. Be in prayer about this and trust God. Wait patiently for the LORD. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the LORD. Psalm 27:14 WEB.
The scripture notes that being unequally yoked can cause delay. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. So, it is important to trust God for a believing husband or wife and to wait on His timing.
You have specifically named Jesus Christ in your prayer. This is good. It is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father. He is the mediator between God and mankind. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB.
For the second issue, praying for your brother to be the head and not the tail, we want to clarify what this means in the scripture. The head is Christ. God expects the man to be the leader of the family as Christ is the head of the church. God wants men to be more like Christ, loving, leading, and serving their family. We pray that your brother becomes a strong spiritual leader for his family. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Ephesians 5:23 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Almighty God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Eliorford's family and brother. We pray that You will guide and direct their paths, and that You will grant them wisdom and discernment in their relationships. We pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor You, Lord. We ask that You show mercy to Eliorford's brother and help him to be a strong leader of his family. We pray that he be the head not the tail and not a follower in the bad things of this world. We pray that Eliorford's brother will show love, compassion, and understanding to his family, as Christ does for His church. We ask this in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
We encourage you, Eliorford, to continue praying fervently for your family and brother. You can trust the promises of God. Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB. God is with you, and He is faithful.