We understand your desire for your family to accept your boyfriend, but we need to address several concerns biblically. First, let's consider the principles of relationships and marriage as outlined in Scripture.
The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" It is crucial that your boyfriend is a fellow believer in Christ, as this will ensure that you both share the same values and foundation for your relationship.
Regarding your request, it is important to honor your father and seek his counsel. Ephesians 6:2 WEB says, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise. Rather than trying to change his perspective, engage in open and respectful conversation with him about your feelings and your boyfriend's character.
Moreover, we must address the issue of courtship and purity. As believers, we are called to maintain sexual purity before marriage. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 WEB states, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor." Ensure that your relationship is honoring God in this regard.
You mentioned that your plans are "in God's hands," but it is essential to acknowledge that it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. John 14:6 WEB says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who seeks acceptance for her boyfriend from her family. We pray that You guide her and her boyfriend in Your will, and that You grant her father discernment and wisdom. We ask that You help them maintain a pure and godly courtship that honors You. Please bless their upcoming plans with Your favor, and allow all things to work together for their good according to Your purpose in Jesus name, amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your relationship, and to trust in Him completely. May God bless you and guide you in His wisdom.